How do I know if I’m handsome? 10 ways to check

Everyone has ever wondered:

“I am handsome?”

We know what a mother would answer, for her you will always be attractive.

But what you really want to know is what others think of you.

TRUE?

And if you’re wondering this, you’ve clearly looked in the mirror and don’t feel confident about your appearance.

I understand your doubts, of course.

It is undeniable that, when flirting, good looks can help you get ahead.

But did you know that good looks are only part of it?

There are many things that can make you attractive, from your sense of humor to your confidence.

Here I explain 10 signs to see if others find you handsome.

Also, I will share 7 tips to make you irresistible to any woman.

Here we go!

How to interpret signals

I understand that sometimes it’s hard to read our signs.

Women tend to flirt in a more subtle way.

Which creates a whole interpretation challenge for men.

A report from the Social Issues Research Center explains that,

“Men find it particularly difficult to read the more subtle cues in women’s body language and tend to confuse friendliness with sexual interest.”

But the truth is that whether someone considers you attractive does not depend only on your appearance.

Your way of being, your gestures and even what you say have an important impact too.

The Social Issues Research Center indicates in this regard that,

“When you first meet people, their initial impression of you will be 55% based on your appearance and body language, 38% on the way you speak, and only 7% on what you actually say.

Plus, their nonverbal cues will tell you a lot more about their feelings for you than the words they use. We show attitudes like liking and disliking not by what we say but by the way we say it and the posture, gestures, and expressions that accompany our speech.”

So, here I will share a list of signs for you to be very attentive.

And it is easy for you to interpret the behaviors of the people around you.

And so you can easily check if they consider you attractive.

10 indisputable signs that you are handsome

1) You have confidence in yourself

Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities in a man.

It is the easiest and most effective way to make yourself more attractive.

Having self-confidence means that you believe in yourself, this helps others to believe in you too.

If you feel confident in yourself, it will show on your face and in your body language.

Generally, women, who tend to pay attention to small details, notice these gestures.

For example, if you have perfect posture, you stand tall with your shoulders back and your head held high.

Or you walk purposefully and when you walk into a room, you own it.

A confident man is a man who is in control, knows what he wants and goes for it without hesitation.

If your body language demonstrates these types of qualities, surely you attract women.

2) They never reject you

How often do you ask someone to do something for you and they say “no”?

When you ask someone to go out with you, they don’t turn you down easily, do they?

Think about it.

If a woman finds it difficult to say “no” to you, it means that she likes you, that she does not want to disappoint you.

In other words, you are an attractive person.

Deep down, you must already know that you are handsome. And you take advantage of it.

Especially if you never get turned down when you ask a woman out.

You probably don’t even have to try very hard, they just say “yes”.

Maybe it’s because of your appearance.

Maybe it’s because they realize that you are self-confident and know what you want.

Whatever it is, the fact that people keep saying “yes” to you is a sure sign of how they view you.

3) They want to talk to you

Let me ask you something:

When you walk into a room, do women seem to gravitate towards you?

Are they usually the ones who start talking to you?

Do they say the famous phrase: “I know you from somewhere” to start a conversation?

Are they trying to get your phone number?

Or, maybe they often ask you about your social media profile.

You may have taken it for granted and thought it is normal behavior.

And that, surely, they are just being friendly.

But it’s not like that:

Women don’t walk up to random men and start chatting, unless they like them.

When a woman sees an attractive guy, she is drawn to him like a magnet.

She sees something she likes and will naturally want to talk to him and get his attention.

If this often happens to you, there is something about you that makes them want to get to know you better.

4) They are interested in what you say

If in addition to wanting to talk to you, they generate conversations, it is a good sign.

They may find you interesting, and this makes them want to get to know you further.

And, probably, they show interest in what you say and ask you questions.

This shows that they feel comfortable in your presence.

They may even insist on talking to you on WhatsApp or social networks.

Sure, sometimes, you don’t even have to do anything, women come to you on their own.

And, if you allow it, they are able to stay talking to you for a long time without being asked.

5) they get nervous

Have you noticed strange or confused behavior from any woman when you approach her?

And I don’t mean kissing her or touching her, just standing near her.

Or even when speaking to someone for the first time.

When a woman finds you attractive and catches her off guard, it’s usually easy to tell.

Because? By his way of acting. They get nervous and doubtful about what to do or say.

They start touching their hair, adjusting their clothes, worrying about how they look.

They may also talk uncontrollably. Or even giggle.

If when looking at you, she bites her lower lip, definitely, you have her crazy about you. he wants you.

6) Eye Contact

Have you ever noticed that girls stare at you when you are around?

What do you think it is due to?

It’s probably not because they find you unattractive, quite the opposite.

Face it, a man wouldn’t stand out if he wasn’t handsome.

Unless he had a characteristic appearance, clothing or something that attracts attention, of course.

The writer Sonsoles Fuentes mentions that,

«our brain is skilfully trained to interpret the insinuation that hides a look. It is used by women from the West, from Asia, from the five continents and almost all female mammals. Ethologists call it the copulatory look. The sequence of expressions is the same: seeing herself surprised, she widens her eyes and raises her eyebrows, perhaps, if she is not too shy, she smiles; and she at once she looks away with a charming drooping of the eyelids and a tilt of the head. »

Have you ever been looked at like that?

7) They surround you

Do you feel like you are surrounded by women wherever you go?

I mean work, gym, club or bars.

AND…

Have you noticed that most of your friends are women?

It is evident that you have a quality that attracts them.

It may be your appearance, your way of being or your charisma.

But if they go to you like moths to the light, without a doubt, they want to have you close.

They feel a connection with you, there is something about your appearance or personality that they like.

8) You are approached by attractive women

The Social Issues Research Center report explains that,

“Like any other human activity, flirting is governed by a complex set of unwritten laws of etiquette. These rules dictate where, when, with whom, and in what way we flirt. We generally obey these unofficial laws instinctively, without being aware of it.”

And within these unwritten codes, there are people who tend to flirt with people who have a similar level of attractiveness to theirs.

So if you are approached by attractive women, it means that they consider you their equal.

9) They praise you

A very common flirting resource is to compliment the person to whom you feel attracted.

This makes the other feel comfortable and easily perceives sexual or emotional interest.

So, evaluate how the women around you generally react.

Do they laugh at your jokes? Do they compliment the way you dress, smell, or how you look?

If you have an irresistible smile, they’ll probably let you know every time you smile.

If you get compliments often, it’s nice for them to be around you. And they want you to know it.

10) You have followers online

Here is another surprising sign that you are attractive:

you have followers, rather, cyber bullies.

Do you get friend requests on social media from women you don’t even remember meeting?

Well, they do remember you.

On one hand, it can be a little creepy knowing that women are harassing you online.

On the other hand, if you think about it, it’s really a compliment.

If a woman wants to meet a man and can’t find your personal contact information, she will resort to following you online.

And maybe even text you.

That’s where social media comes into play.

It has never been easier to follow someone and find out more about them.

So they will follow you and become friends with you.

They will go through all your posts and get to know you as well as possible without actually knowing you.

They will find out what you like and dislike, where you are and who your friends are.

They will watch… Until one day they meet you again.

Then they will be ready.

7 ways to be more attractive

Did you know that science indicates that we look less attractive than we really are?

An article in the newspaper El Confidencial confirms this, after publishing research results.

But if this does not help you, and you want to know how you can be even more attractive, here are some tips to achieve it.

If any of these suggestions is not part of your personality, it is not necessary to change it.

Being yourself is the most important thing.

1) Be spontaneous

One characteristic that makes people attractive is spontaneity.

Generally, women get tired of the same old thing when it comes to meeting a man.

They usually fantasize about a little adventure and get out of everyday life.

And, when someone adventurous and spontaneous arrives, they fall in love with him immediately.

If you are fun and willing to do new things, you will be attractive.

And someone any woman would like to be around.

2) Keep promises

It may surprise you to learn that a man who keeps his word is attractive to women.

What does this mean? It means that you are trustworthy.

A woman knows that she can trust you to do what you said you would do.

He also knows that he can count on you when he needs someone.

Reliability and trustworthiness are surprisingly attractive qualities in a man.

3) Take an interest in others

Being a good conversationalist is very attractive to women.

And if you talk to someone and show interest in what they say, even remember it, it’s even better.

This makes it easier for them to feel comfortable with you and to feel at ease in your presence.

A person who shows interest in another is easy-going, confident, charming and…