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When you’re in love with a guy, there’s one thing every woman wonders about: how do you know if he thinks about me? And while it may seem like an impossible question that you’ll never know the answer to, there are a few ways to find out.

You don’t have to become a mind reader to know what a guy is thinking. Whether you’re a new acquaintance, co-worker, or friend, when a guy is thinking about you, he exhibits some easily recognizable default behaviors. And if you look closer, you can detect clear signs that you live in his thoughts.

Men aren’t as hard to read as you might think; you just have to know what to look for. If you’re wondering if he thinks about you, then ask yourself if he does any of the following things:

How do I know if he thinks of me? See 10 ways to find out

1. He texts you early in the morning and late at night…

When it comes to texting, some guys play hard to get your attention. They can do things like only message you if you message them first, or wait a long time to respond. But if he’s texting you first thing in the morning and/or the last person he’s talking to before bed, he’s clearly thinking about you. And it’s not trying to hide it, either.

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2…and when he goes out with friends.

Plus, if he texts you when he’s with his friends, you’re definitely not out of his mind. And he’s probably already told his friends about you too.

3. He DMs you or tags you in funny Instagram posts.

Notifications like “I saw this and thought of you” and “It reminded me of that time we went to such a place” are modern flirting tactics, okay?! If he sees things and immediately thinks about sending them to you, then yes, he is definitely thinking of you.

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4. He remembers what you say that day…

Another sign that a guy thinks about you is that he paid attention to what you said. When he remembers something you said to him, it shows that he has invested in your life.

5. …and followed up on the matter.

It’s one thing for a guy to remember something you said to him. But it’s even more revealing when he asks about it later. Not only does this show that he’s invested in your life, but also that he really cares about how it’s affecting you.

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6. He also brings up things you haven’t told him.

Thanks to social networks, you can know a lot about someone. Whether a guy mentions his cat by name or his love for French buns on Saturday mornings, he’s clearly spent some time getting to know you through your profiles.

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7. He keeps saying he’s available.

If he’s available to drive you to the airport or available for dinner, if he’s reminding you that he wants to make time for you in his schedule, then you’re definitely on his mind.

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8. He doesn’t talk about other girls.

Some guys don’t mind commenting on other girls’ looks or talking about their love life. But if he never talks about other girls when he’s with you, it’s probably because he thinks of you in a romantic way and expects you to do the same with him.

9. It seems you are strangely connected.

Ever had times when it felt like you were in perfect sync with him? It’s probably because of your subconscious. Our brains often pick up on other people’s feelings and tell our gut to take action. So if he’s thinking about you and doing things to try to win you over, your body should already be aware of it.

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10. He really says he’s thinking about you.

Simple, direct and objective. You have to give points for your honesty. If you’re interested in him too, just make sure you don’t keep him waiting.

Conclusion

When a guy thinks about you, he finds a way to tell you. It can be subconscious at times, but if you pay attention and know what signs to spot, you’ll be pleasantly surprised at how easy it is to read men.