Friendships also expire – The mind is wonderful

No, it’s not always easy. Letting someone go takes courage. Because letting someone go is letting go of a part of you, a part that may never return… And worse still, there are people who reach so deep into your being that when they leave you will never be the same again… Because friendships also expire .

Not all friendships last forever, some also expire. Not even love is free from the best-before date. And make no mistake, there is nothing permanent, relationships are not eternal and we have to know how to let them go.

Since it is usually difficult for us to close stages and say goodbye, this fact becomes a great source of suffering for us. Not even the passage of years makes us immune to goodbyes, especially when we know that there is no turning back.

Friendships change over time

After a certain amount of time, few of your close friends maintain the same position of trust. and less than half of our friends will remain by our side after 7 years. In reality, it is normal for this to happen.

When this happens The really difficult thing is not letting people go, but letting them take that part of you that always accompanied them.. That is the hardest thing to face, even in the moments when that relationship seems to cause you more harm and torture than joy and desire to live.

The important is let go at the right time, at the same moment in which you know that there are no longer guarantees of improvement and that you cannot continue contributing anything good. That will be your moment.

Don’t let your memories become reproaches, that’s when you break everything that could have united you and stop helping each other on the path of life. Letting go is the best demonstration of self-love you can give yourself.

TO Sometimes there are friends that really shouldn’t be called that way., which has an explanation. They say that friends are the family we choose but, although it may sound crude, we have to settle for what we can keep.

It can also happen to us that, even if we put all our trust and give everything for someone, they deceive us. It may be those misdeeds that drive us away and it is normal, No one wants someone toxic in their life that they can no longer trust.

Relationships are changing stages

Anyway, Relationships are stages and, like stages, they are changing. If you accept the rules of the game you will be able to advance, if you don’t you will stagnate. Even if you are fond of a person, it is possible that they no longer exist, at least not as you knew them. Just like you, others change and evolve, we are not the same from one year to the next.

These are the signs that make you feel that something is expired. It may happen to you like the yogurt that is expired in your refrigerator, you may have the option of consuming it for a few more days but at some point you will have to consider throwing it away and buying a new yogurt.

This is no one’s fault, friendships expire and that’s it, you have to know how to accept it. Even if you put a blindfold on, you will still notice that the flavor of the yogurt is not appropriate. If you ignore this and continue eating it, you will get sick. The price to pay is very high.

Memories are beautiful as long as they remain in the past and we do not live off of them, as long as they do not force us to maintain customs that we no longer want and make us live in a constant and unwanted reciprocity.

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