Five decisions that harm you

Excuses and bad habits are a very common scourge today, especially when they affect your decisions. They can be the cause of many problems if we do not take them consciously and also, thinking about tomorrow. Below we tell you some of them:

1 – Use a “mask” just to impress others: If you are always showing something that you are not to others, one day you will no longer recognize yourself in the mirror. The mask will “stick” so much that you will not be able to get out of it or worse, it will become your being and there will be nothing behind it.

When you focus only on being liked, on thinking about the perception that the people around you believe of you or you strive to be someone you are not just to “fit in”, you leave aside your essence. At some point, sooner or later, you will end up forgetting who you really are.

You should not be afraid of the judgments of others, no one is an example to follow or is never wrong, we all have defects and virtues. Also, if you are with a person who accepts you for what you are not, or who only accepts you based on appearances, it is not good company. You don’t have to be perfect to be approved by anyone, avoid being like the “mass”.

2 – Allow others to decide what you dream about: The only person who is “allowed” to dream and think about the future you would like is you. It is true that if you are in a relationship you will dream together of getting married, having children, etc., but it does not refer to that, but to the fact that it is very common for others to impose their wishes and force you to fulfill them.

Remain faithful to your goals and objectives, if others do not agree, they will have their reasons, but do not stop, unless it is not something good for you and your loved ones want to advise you.

3 – Keep negative company: Just as many people “clean out” their closet to remove clothes that they no longer use or are no longer useful, do the same with your friends and people around you. It could be a friend, a co-worker or even a family member or partner. Don’t let the bad attitudes of others affect you.

If you have a person next to you who always complains, sees everything negative in every situation, speaks badly about others when they are not there, is envious, wants horrible things to happen, is full of anger, greed or a bad mood, the best thing will be that you stay away, for your own good. Choose to spend your time with those who help you be betterbe patient, kind, generous, etc.

4 – Being egocentric and selfish: Unfortunately, in the society in which we live we are increasingly “encouraged” to be individualistic, to think only of ourselves. A life full of selfish acts only leads to loneliness and sadness. What you do for yourself only dies with you, but what you do for others remains in their hearts.

5 – Give up when something gets difficult: In today’s culture, the fact of “use and throw away” has turned us into people who we do not repair, but rather abandon. This can apply to an object, a relationship, or a dream.

Failure is just a point of view, do not be discouraged if something does not turn out as you expected, learn from mistakes, do not give up, make decisions to continue, take small steps. If you give up when things are not so simple, you will never build your character or bring out your abilities in the face of adversity.