Fate puts many people in your life, only the best remain

Fate puts many people in your life but only the best remain. Those with whom our ties are most sincere and strong are established in our lives to remain tied to our hearts.

We say “heart” as a way to symbolize our emotional and social world, from which we drink the sips of energy that link us to life, to being in the world and in the society to which we belong.

Whether this statement is true also depends largely on what we are like and the people who approach us, this being what will determine the opportunity to surround ourselves with people who stay around us.

Fragile relationships and solid relationships, a whole world

As we mentioned on another occasion, we probably miss many people but perhaps we don’t stay in touch because, even if we love each other, we don’t get along well. Let’s put ourselves in a situation and remember friendships or loves with whom we were constantly arguingwhich generated conflicts that we could not resolve.

At other times it is enough to think that There are relationships that restrict our freedoms by motu proprio, due to inquisitorial attitudes on the part of the other person or due to the harmful dynamics that we have forged together.

Thus, as if it were a fan of colors, We must accept that sometimes we are not ideal partners at certain times and that it is normal for some relationships to not prosper. It is part of the intrinsic nature of being human that our environment and our emotional world are constantly changing.

It will largely depend on how we manage this changing world whether some people stay and, with them, we forge strong relationships. It is a question of compatibility, of essence and of intimate views that feed us.

However, yes We can do something to strengthen our relationships and build beautiful pillars that support them. Here we give some fundamental premises to generate healthy and solid relationships:

Listen to understand, not to respond. Be noble and not manipulate, as well as remain loyal. Keep our promises. Be honest and frank with those around us. Be attentive and detailed. Do not compete. Apologize when necessary and forgive. Problems do not arise out of nowhere and generally we are all responsible for them. Maintain an optimistic attitude. This can allow you to recover before arguments and conflicts arise. And, in this way, it will be easier for you to keep people in your life who are really worth it. Be flexible on a psychological level. Rigidity will increase negative feelings about your relationships.

It is not easy to cope with the disappointment of breaking up special relationships.

There are times when we place our trust in a relationship and what is done with it lets us down. It is not advisable to victimize this fact but, without a doubt, handling these disappointments is often complicated and painful.

Disappointments are generally preceded by a misunderstanding. Whether because we have not known how to express ourselves or because the other person has not been able to connect with us as we needed, the truth is that a large part of the breakups are generated by breaking some of the principles that we have been discussing.

After this we have to deal with a deep feeling of disappointment that, without a doubt, is the sum of our responsibility, that of the other person and that of both of us as creators of a relationship.

If this is not possible, we simply have to assume that there are people who come and go. After all, as someone once said, There are vital circumstances that lock us in and others that give us wings.; people who load our backpacks with stones and people who are in charge of relieving it; people who darken us and others who give everything to see us shine.

Let’s not spend our time with the wrong people who do not allow us to be happy; Let’s not fight for those who constantly ignore us, let’s value the people who accompany us in good and bad times. Let’s be aware, people come and go and that largely depends on what we choose.

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