Don’t beg for love.
Not for a second.
Never.

Do not ask for something that has to be given willingly.
Don’t haggle for a feeling that has to come sincere.

Everything that happens naturally, happens better.
You know that growing urge to talk to someone?
That incessant desire to know more about that person, to be more with them, to have more of them.
And have it back. Without forcing or insisting.
Attraction just happens.
Things flow.
It’s natural.

There’s no point in forcing a situation that clearly isn’t meant to be.
Everything that is put under pressure finds only one result: explosion.
So pressuring someone to be with you is stupid.
Forcing someone to love you is stupid and a waste of time, it won’t happen.
The only result of this is disappointment and heartache.
In you and in the other.

And that applies to people you’ve just met and to short-term and long-term relationships.

The most you can do is give reasons for someone to like you.
It’s being a great company, a great companion.
Better, be who you would like to be together!
Be that intelligent, humorous person who has an interesting conversation.
Be that person with a good hug, that affectionate person that lights up the room.
Be that person no one wants to get away from.
The best you can do is give someone reasons to stay.
Because even if the person goes… he comes back.
Come back because you wanted to.
Because you made her come back.
No pressure, no asking.

Read Also: I fell in love with the wrong person! And now what do I do?

Don’t ever see yourself in the situation where you need to beg for affection and attention.
Within a relationship this is one of the worst things that can happen.

But that’s the way of being of each one… some people are a little cold and distant, they are not romantic at all.

Believe me, when a person is really into something or someone moves mountains, nothing is strong enough to stop them from staying.
So if a person needs to be romantic, affectionate, make surprises or declarations, they will!
When you don’t feel like it, or are comfortable, everything seems painful, everything is difficult, everything seems sacrificing.
And if you’ve reached the state of being happy for the smallest treat… you’re begging.
The delivery in the relationship has to be the same, it has to come from both.
Not in the same way, since each one has their own way, but in the same intensity, yes.
Don’t be satisfied with crumbs, but don’t be begging for affection either.
Take action.

Because first of all you have to love yourself. And this is so obvious!
When you love yourself, you create space for someone else to approach and love you too.
When you light up, you welcome more smiles.
When you stop begging for love, you are ready to give yours.
And receive the love you deserve.