Beware, you can’t control how you feel

You tell your friends you don’t feel anything for that guy. However, he has such a good chat, the kind that makes you totally lose track of time. He has a breathtaking kiss and a hug that makes you shudder, typical of experienced guys who have dated several. Despite this, he is a scoundrel, who tends to seek you out only when he wants something in return. You insist that it’s nothing serious and that you’re together just for fun and sex. You insist on believing that you can be with him without getting involved.

He comes on whatsapp all affectionate and saying he misses you. You are all happy, but you try to control yourself not to have any hope, after all you have nothing. When they go out, you want to do everything to please him, spend hours getting ready, get your nails done and even buy new lingerie, just to please him and make the night unforgettable.

You insist that you won’t get involved and that it’s just fun for both of you. But when he goes missing for a week, you’re already pissed off thinking he’s got another one to take his place. When he reappears, texting you, your heart races and you respond faster than ever. Of course, you really want to believe that you’re not going to get involved.

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In the end… You feel something for him that this whole narrative is true and that you can’t stop trying to convince yourself that you can’t fall in love with this scoundrel. The problem is that your thoughts don’t control how you feel and the more time passes, the more involved you are with someone who barely misses you.

Friend, good advice, get out of it. This guy doesn’t want you. Don’t let yourself be an instrument of fun for him, someone he can kick when he wants to. As he talks to you, he manages four more conversations being careful not to get confused and message the wrong person.

Connect! This guy is just wasting your time. While you think you control how you feel about him, the days, months and years are passing and you’re wasting your life waiting for someone, who doesn’t care about you, to book the next exit.

Let’s plan something? From today, run away from the scoundrels. As much as he says otherwise. You don’t have to want a prince on the white horse, but you know, you don’t have to get involved with a scoundrel to feel loved either.

Murillo Leal

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It’s you, brunette. My love!