Before ending a relationship, consider these questions

One year after divorce, the standard of living for women is reduced by 73% and that of men by 42%. Therefore, psychologists recommend not making decisions on the spur of the moment or having had a bad day, especially if the decision is to leave your partner. Before taking this step, it’s always best to ask a series of questions and think carefully.

All people, at some point in their lives, find themselves in a situation where they have to make a difficult decision: try to save their relationship, hoping that everything will be okay, or permanently separate from their partner/partner.

Experts don’t recommend breaking up with the person if you really love them. However, insisting on an apparently “normal” relationship, but which in reality oppresses you, is not worth it. Therefore, it is important to make a decision that you will not regret in the future.

O awesome.club brought this series of questions that can help when looking at the relationship with your partner, from another point of view.

Do you have the feeling that you are currently the best version of yourself? In a healthy relationship, as a general rule, both support, encourage, and rejoice. when the other reaches new goals, and basically, that’s what drives personal evolution and feeds new hobbies.

If you feel like your partner is pushing you down and isn’t progressing at the same pace, this is a good opportunity to reflect. Most likely, in the future, dissatisfaction between the two will only increase.

This is a very important issue. If you want to live a life full of travel, meeting friends, adventures, unforgettable and unique moments but your partner just wants to stay at home and seems to be an introvert, chances are there will be constant conflicts due to this.

Equally important are plans related to family, work, and so on. If you are sure you want to achieve great professional achievements before you think about having children, and your partner supports you, that’s fine. Having similar plans and viewpoints will reduce misunderstandings to a minimum.

We are all adults and we have our own interests and obligations outside of any relationship. Nonetheless, nothing should be more important than love for each other🇧🇷 Undoubtedly, there are situations where problems that have built up over a period of time become more important than the relationships and conversations between the two. But this should just be an exception to the rule.

If you feel that your partner is often putting you in the background and is not interested in anything in your life and you, in turn, respond in the same way, think about whether this relationship is worth keeping.

This question will help you look at your relationship for reason and not emotion. If you have problems, but most of the time you feel comfortable being together, being calm and at ease, that’s a good sign.

On the other hand, sometimes the couple has almost no problems, but the two together feel frustrated and unhappy🇧🇷 And that’s not a good sign. It is interesting to stop and reflect on the future of this relationship.

Relationships are impossible without concessions and these must be mutual. The fact is that they are two different people and their points of view often do not coincide.

If the feeling is that in most of the time you are the one who has to please your partner, and you have to sacrifice or give up your interests and even give in, this is not a good sign.

It can be difficult to explain the reasons for your dissatisfaction with the relationship, but sometimes, when we say them out loud, it creates an uncomfortable situation: this is why I’m thinking about leaving the person I love and with whom I have so much in common. common?

Try to identify these causes on your own. Think about whether or not they are serious and whether it is somehow possible to change the situation, if both of you are willing to make the effort. And only after that should the final decision be made.

Imagine your life without that partner after a few years. What’s the sensation? If it is clear that in fact you will be much happier than you are now, despite the difficulties that will appear, the time has come to act. Money and stability are important, but not a reason to be with someone you no longer love. Remember: try to resolve these and other issues before making the decision to separate. Think calmly, reflect on all points, evaluate the possibilities for changes.

But if life without this person seems sad and boring, then it’s very likely worth working on improving the relationship.instead of throwing it all away in the heat of an argument.

What questions would you add to this list?