Dating is time to grow in love. Making a definitive commitment takes courage. Statistics have shown a decrease in marriages, and young people are not wanting to get married. For this reason, I dedicate a space here on the Me Apaixonei blog to talk about it. So, let’s go, get some valuable advice so that dating is a time to grow in love:

1 – Fear of “I promise to be faithful”

Love cannot be understood only as a feeling or a psychophysical state, but as a relationship, a reality that grows and, therefore, is built like a house.

2 – How to build a secure relationship?

Dating is like building a house and it must be done together. Therefore, it is necessary to favor and help in mutual growth. This growth, which begins in courtship, must not be based on the sand of feelings that come and go; it needs to be built on the rock of true love that comes from God.

3 – Rules for living in harmony

Living together is an art. “A patient, beautiful and fascinating path, which does not end when we conquer each other”. Everyday life is made up of rules that can be summed up in three words: excuse me, sorry and thank you. “Let us ask the Lord to make us understand the law of love. How good it is to have this law! How good it is for us to love one another against everything! ”.

4 – How to find the perfect match?

There is no one perfect; therefore, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. What exists are people who fail. The secret to dealing with these limits is in never end a day without asking the other for forgiveness, without letting peace return to our home. This path of forgiveness makes it possible for the marriage to last, to go forward.

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5 – Let yourself be loved and surprised

“True love is loving and letting me love.” Love is always a surprise, because it supposes a dialogue between the one who loves and the one who is loved.

6 – Dream about the qualities of the other

It is necessary to dream about the goodness and qualities of the partner. How many difficulties in the life of the couple are solved when there is room for the dream! When the ability to dream is lost in a relationship, love does not grow and life weakens and fades. It is very important to dream.

7 – Everyday love

As in the Our Father prayer – “Give us this day our daily bread”, couples can say: “Give us this day our daily love”.

8 – Give lightness to the relationship

Of all things, what weighs the most is the lack of love. It weighs not to receive a smile, not to be received. Certain silences weigh. Without love, the effort becomes heavier, intolerable.

9- Dating right is right

Despite the insecurity, having a family is at the top of all signs of satisfaction among young people. But they, for fear of making a mistake, even refuse to consider this possibility. Warning: don’t get carried away by these ideas.

All current arguments for avoiding marriage are false. Most young people dream of a happy home. I hope these tips help you in this very cool time, which is dating. You can be sure, a well-lived relationship will bear wonderful fruits that you will reap for a lifetime.