Balance Your Masculine and Feminine Energy |

Regardless of gender, every person carries both feminine and masculine energies. And balancing these forces can make the individual feel fuller, after all, this quality of energy is fundamental in the development of our lives, since women and men have it in a more or less developed way.

A clear example can be seen in the fact that the maternal energy in some men is apparent, as they end up playing this role in the family. In those cases, they have developed more of this feminine side of energy, either by necessity or by choice. As for the feminine maternal energy, it is necessary during family life, but it must be watched closely by the woman. When becoming a mother, it is necessary to know how to balance this aspect, under penalty of sexually unbalancing the couple’s relationship, for example.

With this, it is possible to observe that one energy does not overlap the other, they are complementary, necessary. The feminine and masculine polarities, Yin and Yang, are different and it is through them that we make the important energetic exchanges for our vital energy. Feminine energy has the power to move masculine energy. Just think of the animal kingdom: it is the female who allows and desires (or not) intercourse. The male reacts to the charms or disenchantments of this energy.

The importance of energy balance in relationships

Feminine and masculine energies significantly influence the interaction between a couple. If they are balanced, they can offer an affectionate and lasting relationship, which allows the development of both on the path of their sexual and emotional maturation.

The masculine energy symbolizes attitudes related to the care and strengthening of the family, welcoming and acting together with the feminine energy. This, in turn, is focused on raising and educating children, involving the family in a welcoming sphere at home. With regard to sexuality and pleasure, it is important for the couple to have both energies balanced within themselves.

The so-called Father-Mother relationship, in which each one assumes only one energy to the detriment of the other, becomes less desirable. The enchantment and sexual deepening of the couple that bases their relationship on this energetic imbalance happen on a shallow and pleasurable level, often becoming a marital obligation.

Going to bed with “mother” or “father” is not very desirable or challenging, the relationship tends to be lukewarm. Some couples live around this energy and are satisfied with the small intensity of the relationship, failing to live their sexuality with pleasure, sacrificing this pleasure. “The charm is over” is an argument that is often made by some couples who separate. Some people, even with a feeling of love for their other half, drag out their unsatisfactory love lives for some time or even for a lifetime.

There is dissatisfaction in the attitude of these people. The husband sometimes treats his wife as “mother” and she treats him as “father”, affectionately. When both become aware of this tendency, it is possible to start working on the unsatisfactory relationship with the other, changing their attitude and opening themselves to the opportunity for transformation.

What energy do you use the most?

Part of the difficulties in relationships can be caused by the confusion that men and women have in the use of their masculine and feminine energies. Within each human being both forces circulate, since they are complementary. The masculine energy is characterized by objectivity, reason and focus in a single direction. The feminine, on the other hand, is subjective, emotional, with possible attention in several directions.

Within each human being both forces circulate, since they are complementary. The masculine energy is characterized by objectivity, reason and focus in a single direction. The feminine, on the other hand, is subjective, emotional, with possible attention in several directions.

Historically, before the women’s revolution in the 1960s – a period in which women demanded equal rights with men – society was used to the submissive stereotype of women, who depended economically and emotionally on their partner. At the same time, the man had the role of provider and someone who could not get in touch with his own feelings.

Over time, in order to survive in the essentially masculine universe of work, women had to learn to use this energy in order to be respected. The men, in turn, started a process of emotional awareness and started to get in touch with the feminine energy, becoming more humanitarian.

This means that a woman can use her masculine energy professionally without losing her feminine identity. In the same way, man can be sensitive and strong at the same time. This would be an example of balance between both energies.

The power of feminine energy

Feminine energy is present inside everyone, but few know how to use it. Identifying this energy makes us more aware of the power to generate, create and transmute. After all, being feminine is not just being a woman, as it goes beyond sex and physical characteristics and mannerisms. Feminine energy is receptive, welcomes, nourishes, boosts and stimulates.

In the same way that every man has a feminine energy, every woman is equally the owner of a masculine energy – often used to rescue her personal power, assuming a strong dose of yang energy. When this happens in excess, the feminine energy is weakened, since the physical body, sooner or later, will feel this imbalance and ask again for what brings stability.

Of course, active, fulfilling masculine energy is important in a woman’s life. This is what was even recovered with the “liberation of women”, who started to have autonomy of decision. Likewise, the feminine part is also necessary for men, who explore characteristics such as care, unconditional love, receptivity, intuition, instinct and sweetness.

How to balance the energies?

The qualities that women have been looking for in men, such as protection, strength, power, responsibility, attention, excitement and romance need to be developed in themselves. The formula is simple: treat yourself the way you would like to be treated by a man, and then you will notice that what you create in you is mirrored outside of yourself. Once you have developed your masculine side that supports and loves you, you will always attract people into your life who will reflect this process. When a woman falls in love with a man, she is seeing her own masculine energy reflected in him.

As for the qualities that men usually look for in women, such as care, warmth, strength, sexuality and beauty, they also exist within themselves in their feminine aspect. Once they learn to respect, listen to, and follow him, they will attract women who reflect that integration into their lives.

Therefore, knowing that the person we are attracted to is a reflection of ourselves, we no longer need to be dependent on the other. After all, that’s how we discover that everything we see in the other is also present in ourselves.

“There is a woman here

A witch, a princess

A diva, what a beauty!

choose what you want

but hurry

go quickly

don’t you dare

thinking a lot

my universe

still despises

Who do not know

What you want…”

Ana Canas