Amazing people get dumped too… and for a few moments they have the bizarre idea that they’re trash.

I’ve been following a strange phenomenon for months, in which I have a new single friend or friend every week. But it’s not just any kind of singleness, it’s the imposed and suffered one, better known as taking the foot in the butt.

The strangest thing is that they all have the same profile: especially beautiful, especially intelligent, especially successful, especially well dressed and especially well resolved.

It’s a kind of epidemic, it seems that no one is safe.

And it is a widespread phenomenon. Who doesn’t have an amazing friend or friend who hasn’t been through this recently?

The supposed justifications are the most diverse: you work too much; you are too amazing; you are too demanding; you are too controlling; you are too expansive; you are too sweet; you study too much.

Anyway, they are undeniably people who are too much for their former companions.

And every week I’ve seen someone out on the open sea. Aimless, without ground, crying an ocean. Terrified that he will never find someone “as good as his ex” again.

I keep looking at these people. For their impeccable hair, for their enviable résumés, for their imposing jobs, but they think they are the last creatures.

I’ve given up trying to understand all this. They say that it is difficult to understand the human being, but trying to understand this type of people who leave their peers because they are “too much”, seems to me even more challenging.

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Of course, we can always improve something in our behavior for future relationships. I’m not saying that we are perfect, that we shouldn’t rethink attitudes or that we are above good and evil.

But seriously, guys, don’t blame yourself!

Don’t ask yourself if the breakup is to blame for that cellulite that always appears on your left thigh when you cross your leg. It’s not even one of those polka dot pajamas you wear in winter. Not even the 3 kilos you didn’t lose. Or the books you read while your ex was snoring. Not even that weekend when I didn’t have time to shave my leg.

Not anything! Not your mistakes, not your flaws, not your crises!

It’s not your fault. And maybe not the other. It’s over, it’s over.

Maybe he or she asks to come back, maybe not. Maybe he or she begs you, maybe you don’t want to. Maybe you will weaken, or maybe you will go on as king or queen of your world. Maybe he or she starts a new relationship with someone who is 2 meters tall and has the perfect curves. Maybe he or she falls in love with the ugliest person in the neighborhood, but who is really nice as hell. I do not know. The fact is, God knows why, but these days that person no longer wants to be with someone as amazing as you are.

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And it’s not your fault. There were simply two options: to be with you or not, with all your strengths and weaknesses. And the person chose the “or not”. That simple. Don’t hate her. But mostly: don’t hate yourself.

Keep walking is the remedy. It happens to everyone. But I won’t deny that it’s happening more and more to the most amazing people.

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Some people question whether it is better to disguise their qualities in future relationships. Playing dumb, lying about your job, etc.

No, no, none of that. Remain imposing. Beautiful. enviable. Honor all that you have achieved. If the little plane doesn’t accompany the boeing, patience. Keep on flying. One day we arrive in better lands.

And yes, there are better lands, rest assured. There are nice people out there. There are amazing stories to live. And there are hundreds of better days waiting for you.