9 sex recipes for a different and very exciting night

1. A hot night

WHERE – At home, in the bedroom.

PRELIMINARY – Take a shower, without him. At the end, turn off the shower, lather your hands with liquid soap and start a massage on your face, then your neck, shoulders, arms, breasts, belly… even your feet. Breathe slowly, feeling the perfume of the soap. Then, let the water wash away the foam and, with it, the accumulated tensions.

WHAT TO WEAR – For you, a baggy T-shirt (eliminate the bra and panties). For him, comfortable shorts, no underwear.

PREPARING THE ENVIRONMENT – Turn off your cell phone and any other device that may interfere with your concentration. Leave only relaxing music in the background. Keep the room lit by candles and, if it’s cold, provide a heater. On top of the bed, place pillows and a tray with delicious things that they can eat with their hands (chopped cheese, olives…), as well as wine, champagne or soda.

STEP BY STEP

1. In bed, serve him in the mouth and ask him to do the same. Avoid chatting and start a sensual game serving word of mouth.

2. While still wearing clothes, tell him to lie on his stomach and close his eyes. She slides her hands down his back, arms, buttocks and legs, caressing him. She repeats on the front of her body. Do not touch nipples or genitals. When he’s finished, she suggests he massage her a little.

3. Start a body-to-body massage: the two hug each other, feel the proximity and slide their hands wherever they want. Include oral sex. The rest is just let it happen.

2. Special ice cream “in the steam room”

WHERE – In a bathroom.

PRELIMINARY – In the afternoon, let him know at work that, in the evening, you will have a delicious ice cream together. Speak in a provocative way, which will make him anxious and excited as he tries to imagine what might happen. Ask not to be late because you have a surprise.

WHAT TO WEAR – A very sexy shirt.

PREPARING THE ENVIRONMENT – Line the entire bathroom floor with fluffy, soft towels. Turn on the shower at very hot temperature until the environment is similar to a steam room. Keep an ice cream cone of the flavor he likes best in the kitchen fridge or in a styrofoam.

STEP BY STEP

1. Start with a relaxed chat in the room. Gradually, he moves closer and whispers in his partner’s ear that the night will be special. Explain the joke: to get the promised ice cream he will have to wait for her naked in the bathroom, lying on the floor.

2. Enter the bathroom with the ice cream cone and wearing only the T-shirt. She sits on top of her partner and invites him to play a game: half of the ice cream is his and half is hers. The bowls? It will be their bodies. The spoons? Everyone’s language.

3. Remove the t-shirt and start the game: let the ice cream slowly fall on his body and on yours. The thermal shock of ice cream on bodies heated by steam will intensify your pleasure. Tell him not to leave anything in his body and that you will do the same. When the ice cream comes to an end, you will be so excited that the caresses will flow so that you reach the maximum pleasure.

3. The first date fantasy

WHERE – Starts at a restaurant and ends at home.

PRELIMINARY – Using your cell phone, come up with a fantasy: pretend you don’t know each other and that you need to seduce each other. Make an appointment at a restaurant, where you will start to get excited with “forbidden” attitudes: stepping on the other’s leg, making sensual caresses on the hands… This innuendo in a public place excites much more than going straight for sex.

WHAT TO WEAR – Opt for clothes that you would wear to seduce a man on a first date.

ENVIRONMENT PREPARATION – It is not necessary to prepare anything special. Just choose a place in the house where you’re not used to having sex. For example, if it’s always in the bedroom or bathroom, prefer the kitchen or living room.

STEP BY STEP

1. At home, continue the “together for the first time” game. Start with kisses, hugs and caresses that will become more involved every moment.

2. Pretend you don’t know what he likes best in bed and explore the parts of your partner’s body you don’t usually touch. But avoid the genital region. Save it for when the excitement peaks. He must do the same for you.

4. Erotic dancing by the sea

WHERE – At an inn by the sea.

PRELIMINARY – At the end of the afternoon, call him for a walk, barefoot in the sand. Make an invitation to sex there. At the inn, take a warm bath, in which you will spread almond oil on each other’s bodies. Stimulate all regions and let out exciting words.

WHAT TO WEAR – A relaxed outfit, but with a provocative neckline.

ENVIRONMENT PREPARATION – Leave the room organized, without piles of clothes thrown or dirty glasses.

STEP BY STEP

1. Get out of the shower (you don’t need to dry yourself off) and start dancing with your bodies together and slippery. Feel each other’s warmth as you kiss and caress each other slowly.

2. Lie down on the bed and proceed with sex by imitating a sensual dance.

5. A sensual dash of “Titanic”

WHERE – It starts in the car and ends at a small hotel on an island accessible by ferry.

PRELIMINARY – Take inspiration from the scene where Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet have sex in a car in the movie Titanic. Try to remember the details or watch the movie again.

WHAT TO WEAR – A tube and a pearl necklace.

ENVIRONMENT PREPARATION – Book a romantic song to be heard in the car. Contact the hotel in advance so that, when you arrive, you don’t waste time filling in entry forms.

STEP BY STEP

1. When you are on the ferry, in the evening, close the car windows and put on romantic music.

2. Wait for the windows to fog up (which happens in a few minutes) and start caressing him, discreetly, interspersing your touches between kisses and whispers. It’s not about pushing the boundaries in a public place – the goal is just to start stirring up the desire. With that, you’ll manage to get him excited enough for a special night.

3. At the end of the journey, stop the caresses and start fantasizing as a couple and talking about what might happen in the hotel room. Once there, undress sensually until you are only wearing a necklace. There, fulfill the fantasy.

6. Surprise in the empty apartment

WHERE – In an empty apartment (borrow or convince a realtor to rent it for the day).

PRELIMINARY – Arrange with him to meet her at that apartment. Just say you’re in for a surprise. Give him a copy of the key.

WHAT TO WEAR – Provocative clothes.

ENVIRONMENT PREPARATION – Leave a note on the floor, next to a sale, so that it can be seen by those who arrive. In it, ask your partner to put on the blindfold and wait for it standing in the exact place where it is. In another room, keep a mat, satin sheets and a portable stereo with a CD of your choice. Make sure they won’t be disturbed.

STEP BY STEP

1. Hide outside the apartment (on the stairs or elsewhere) and wait a few moments for him to read the note and follow your instructions. Then quietly open the door, place the mat on the floor and cover it with the sheet. Turn on the sound. Don’t answer anything he asks: place your fingertips gently over his mouth to let him know it’s you.

2. Unbutton his clothes and take off yours. When they are naked, caress him with your hands and mouth, from his face to his genital area. He must not touch her.

3. When you feel that both of you are very excited, take him to the mat, help him to lie down, still with the blindfold on, and start having oral sex. Don’t go all the way. Then take off the blindfold, lie down and surrender.

7. Pleasure lulled by belly dancing

WHERE – In the room.

PRELIMINARY – Put on some oriental music and practice a dance:

1. Following the rhythm, raise your arms as if you were reaching for something high above your head, look at your hands and slowly bring them up to your face. Forget fast and sudden movements and bet on lightness. Stop your hands for a moment at eye level, hiding part of your face. Start the whole movement again, and this time stop your hands between your breasts.

2. Bring your hands forward, as if offering something, and make circular movements with your torso. Slide your hands from your waist to your hips, touching your body. With your legs together, slightly bend your knees and move your hips as if playing with a hula hoop.

WHAT TO WEAR – A robe for him and another, silk, toe-length, for you. Underneath, wear a typical belly dancing outfit. Let the hair down and outline the eyes.

ENVIRONMENT PREPARATION – Distribute lamps with scented oil (lavender or rosemary) in the corners of the room. Create a tent of sorts by placing cushions around a soft rug.

STEP BY STEP

1. Receive him with oriental music and ask him to sit on the cushions.

2. Take off your robe and start the show: stay 2 meters away from him and start the suggested dance.

3. At the end, turn your back and unbutton your bra, without taking it off. Sit across from your partner and wait for them to take the next steps.

8. The softness of tantric techniques

WHERE – At his house or yours.

PRELIMINARY – Moments before sex, do a meditation exercise: sit down with your legs crossed and relax; breathe slowly and imagine feeling great pleasure with your partner in bed. For tantrism, this intensifies desire.

WHAT TO WEAR – Something transparent.

ENVIRONMENT PREPARATION – Place drops of a sensual scent, such as musk, on the sheets and towels. Sprinkle flowers on the pillows and along the route they will take to the bedroom. Light incense and candles. Put on some new age music.

STEP BY STEP

1. While still dressed, put your foreheads together and move slowly to the melody swing. Touch each other gently.

2. Take off your clothes and sit on the bed, facing each other. The candles will allow you to observe the outline of naked bodies in the half-light. The exciting fragrance will help to increase the desire. Stare into each other’s eyes, in silence. Touch hands.

3. Take the initiative to gently kiss his lips. Feel the temperature, the taste, the perfume. Alternate the pressure during the same kiss. Gently touch the tip of your tongue to his lips, then gently suck.

4. Inform, again in whispers, where you would like to be touched. Gradually, you can cue him with a deeper breath, a smile, or a groan each time he touches the right spot. If he takes time to discover his favorite caress, hold him and lead him. At the same time, to intensify the rigidity of the penis, squeeze the base and make an upward movement, as if you were going to pull something towards the tip.

5. Avoid quick movements and sudden attitudes. Everything must be done smoothly. Give preference to a position where you are on top so that you can command the caresses. The two should take it easy and try to contain the orgasm: take a deep breath for seconds when they are close to the climax to then resume the relationship.

9. A new woman at the motel

WHERE – In a motel with a hot tub.

PRELIMINARY – In front of the mirror,…