7 Signs He’s Interested But Confused

Men are not very good at dealing with their feelings, and especially the more romantic ones.

They are not used to communicating their emotions.

And it can be even more confusing when a guy has developed feelings for you that he wants to ignore.

His sometimes cold and sometimes warm demeanor will leave you wondering if he’s into you or just watching too many romantic movies.

So, How can you tell if someone likes you even if they don’t make a move? Well, there are several signs that he is interested but confused.

7 Signs He Likes You But Is Confused About His Feelings

1) He feels protective of you

Men who care about you will always try to protect you. It’s part of your natural instinct.

They are likely to walk you home at night or pick you up from work to protect you from any unfortunate situation.

When someone or something bothers you, you will react immediately.

He gets angry when you experience something negative and will be the first to help you.

But it will only do when you’re not around, because he won’t want to explain to you why he cares so much about you.

However, he will shrug it off when you try to thank him for his deal with you, telling you that he would do the same for anyone.

But would he really do it?…

If you sense that she’s doing it for your other friends, then she’s telling the truth.

If not, it’s a special treatment reserved for you, because he likes you.

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2) His behavior towards you is inconsistent

When a guy who is struggling with his feelings likes you, he will switch between two states of mind.

The first is a state of friendship and understanding.

This is when this guy seems to like you a lot, because he treats you so well.

He doesn’t talk about other girls and deliberately spends a lot of time with you.

However, when you least expect it, it will change to its other state of mind: coldness.

Suddenly, he’ll cut off communication and avoid you for weeks.

Some days you will feel it very close to you. And other days, it shuts down and avoids any connection with you.

You may think you did something to upset him, but don’t worry.

You probably didn’t do anything.

This inconsistent behavior is a sign that this guy is confused about his feelings.

I might even deny them.

You are trying to process your emotions.

That implies that he can’t be rational when you’re around.

Until you come to a conclusion and figure out how you want to proceed, you will remain distant.

In addition to being confused, he really wants to hide his romantic attraction to you.

It can also happen that he ignores you, because you could tell that he likes you and he is afraid that you do not feel the same way.

If he really likes you, he will soon admit those feelings to himself and to you.

3) He is always watching you

A guy who likes you will seek to look at you, because he is interested in how you look and what you are doing.

When you look, it doesn’t feel creepy, or stalkerish.

There is more of an affection or sweetness in the way he looks at you.

However, there is a good chance you won’t catch him in the act.

Every time you turn away or try to meet his eyes, he will probably look away.

He doesn’t want you to know he’s looking at you, so he’ll act like nothing happened.

4) Your body language will give you away

Observing someone’s body language is key to understanding how they really feel about you.

People usually don’t realize that their bodies send subconscious signals.

So you can take advantage of it because it is a true reflection of your feelings for another person.

Even guys who are experts at acting cool and collected won’t be able to control the way their body is naturally drawn to you.

Common body language signs that express romantic attraction include:

Eye contact: Sometimes prolonged eye contact leads to a tense moment and the guy will look away first. This is because he doesn’t want to have these feelings, and he definitely doesn’t want you to know that these feelings exist. Mirror your gestures: If a guy mirrors your body language all the time, it’s a sign that he likes you. When you sit a certain way or have a drink, do you notice him doing the same? Mimicking each other’s movements and even words is a subconscious attempt to show that you both agree. Open posture: Whether you are sitting or standing together, a guy who is interested in you will always be in front of you and his posture will be open. It could be his whole body or just his feet turned towards you. In addition, he will tend to position himself in the places closest to you.

5) He gets jealous of other guys

Jealousy is a telltale sign that someone is romantically interested in you.

Even if a guy is trying his best to bury his feelings and hide them, he won’t be able to control himself if another guy comes into the picture.

Although you have no right to feel jealous, your insecurity will get the better of you.

He might think you’re out of his depth, but he probably can’t stand the thought of you being with anyone other than him either.

Some classic signs of jealousy are:

Acts like an object when another guy approaches you Shows anger or frustration when you mention another person Warns you about a guy, telling you that you deserve better Is rude and dismissive to another guy, although he is usually nice and polite to most of people.

This territorial behavior is a holdover from the evolution of man, when male animals became competitive against rival mates for a female.

In fact, you might even see him show a little more boldness and initiative, because he thinks he’s up against someone else.

He dresses better, sends sweet and kind gifts, and makes more appearances in your life.

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7) Find excuses to talk to you

Receiving random calls or messages from a guy is a sign that he is interested in you.

He usually addresses this by asking you seemingly innocent questions, as an excuse to talk to you.

If you’re working together, he’ll ask you casual questions about the office.

However, he may not really care what he is asking you.

He only wants to initiate contact with you through a regular conversation.

Being connected on social media also helps him, because it’s easier to start talking to you.

He can comment on your posts or reply to your stories. Your vacation photo could be a starting point for him.

It is possible that he really does not want to know where you spent the holidays.

What he really hopes is that this will lead to a long conversation with you.

What can we do then if we find in a boy several of these signs in a positive way?

You have two ways, if you want something to happen with him.

One is to continue waiting for him to resolve what is holding him back, on his own.

But it is also important to set a waiting time, which seems reasonable to you, so as not to waste your time.

Also, this option is valid if you are not madly in love with him and you have peace of mind to wait for whatever happens.

The other option is to take the first step yourself and sit down and talk with him, to try to solve together what is happening to him.

This also implies being patient and not putting pressure on him.

Regardless of what you talk to, he may still need a while to get to the point of moving on with you.

Again, it is good to give yourself a time, which is prudent for the wait.

Surely, you’ll want to get on with your life, if he doesn’t make a move.

And the most important thing is to think about whether it is worth doing all this for this boy.

If so, and he finally resolves his issues, chances are you have a fantastic love story to tell.