You don’t see it, but if you could access the immense amount of messages on the page that we receive every day, you would be amazed at how people are so blind in love to the point of becoming, sorry for the word, idiots.

Yes, it’s pure idiocy…

There are cases where, in fact, the person is disoriented, doesn’t know what to do and needs a direction, but there are others that I honestly keep asking myself how this person doesn’t realize that he’s in a predicament.

There are some of the bravest idiocies when it comes to sentimental life. People know they’re screwing up with their lives (sorry for the expression!), but they’re still there, insisting on something that won’t work.

This reminds me of a great quote from a friend of mine:

The shit is already done, now I’m going to throw that shit on the fan.

Every time I remember him saying that, I start to laugh, but it’s sad to know that there are people who are so blind that they are doing this right now with their lives.

Below I will list some attitudes of certain people and, if you do the same things, you can be sure that you are an idiot in love and you have to stop doing such things urgently, otherwise you will get screwed even more, or , as my friend says, “you will keep throwing shit in the fan”.

1 – Cheating: If you do this, you can be sure that you are a total idiot, since I have never seen someone happy cheating on someone else, this attitude only brings destruction to the life of those who do it;

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2 – Relate to committed people: It’s amazing the number of emails I receive from people who are accepting to be “the other” in someone’s life. If you accept being a lover, know that you will never have the love of that real person and on top of that you will never be happy with anyone at all;

3 – Relating to people who have a reputation as a chicken/womanizer: If you know that the other person is a chicken, is a womanizer, cheats, is unfaithful, then tell me why you will accept a relationship with her? That’s asking to suffer, it’s very blind on your part;

4 – Liking someone who devalues you: The person has already given all the evidence in the world that they don’t like you, they have humiliated you, they mistreat you, they don’t care what you feel or do, but even so I receive many emails every day from those who still want to continue a relationship (or liking) a being like that;

5 – Give yourself to anyone: You go out to parties, have sex on the first night, stay with everyone, your body belongs to no one (not even yours), it’s known as “farinha de Feira”, which everyone pass your hand, and then you still come crying wanting to know why you’ve never been happy? Honestly, it’s very stupid of you;

6 – Fell in love with someone who was easy for you: Look, when I was blind I even made this mistake, but I never do it again. If someone was easy for you, you’re going to lose that someone pretty quickly, because it means that someone will also be easy for someone else. Women who give up sex right away, guys who just want sex from the woman and still insist on the first date, this type of person will only screw up your life;

7 – Love at first sight: Every time you fall in love with someone without knowing that person, you can be sure that you are signing a certificate of stupidity. There is no love at first sight, this is an illusion, you can only fall in love with someone after you meet them, if you fall in love without knowing, you will be completely screwed;

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There are still many other cases where people sign a certificate of idiot in their sentimental life, but these are the ones I receive the most emails.

Honestly, if you want to go down this path, know that you will never be happy in love, that’s for sure!