21 interesting questions to ask the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with

The 21 questions game was created especially to break the ice in the relationship. This is a very creative way to find out funny and amusing things about the person you’re with but didn’t know yet.

But the most important thing about these questions is that in practice this type of game can become something very important for the relationship health. It’s also a very effective way to get to know the other person’s fears, desires, dreams, and priorities.

Call your love and ask him these 21 questions. Come on!

1. When you haven’t seen your family for a long time, what do you do when you see them again?

It’s a good question to assess the relationship with the family, as well as the type of family he has. Do they hug? Or are you the type to greet each other with handshakes? Do they scream and laugh when they meet, or are they more on the quiet side?

Either way, this question can help you prepare to meet them or understand why he always gives you a big hug when he sees you, which you just love.

2. Who has had the greatest influence on your life?

This is a deeper question, and it will force you to think about the people who helped shape you into who you have become. This can help the two of you decide how you want to influence not just each other, but perhaps your own children in the future.

3. What are you most afraid of?

Another profound question that can give you a better understanding of some of your fears and insecurities, and help you realize that your own fear is not as crazy or scary as you thought.

Also, it’s nice to be able to tell him, and tell yourself, now you have someone to face those fears with.

4. Do you love what you do?

This can be interesting, depending on your age and stage of life, because if you’re both in college, you obviously know he doesn’t want to work at the campus cafeteria forever.

Or maybe he wants to? This could be a great opportunity to find out.

5. Could you survive a day without your cell phone? Many days? One year?

Most people these days can’t go for a few minutes without looking at their cell phone. Maybe you are one of them, or he is one of them.

This might be a good time to discuss the importance of technology in their lives and what role you want it to play in your relationship.

6. If you could time travel, would you like to visit the past or go to the future?

This question is as fun as it is introspective, and it can lead to some pretty fascinating answers. Maybe he loves Hemingway and Fitzgerald’s time or maybe he would like to see a futuristic basketball game.

Only time will tell.

7. What do you like to eat most?

This question creates a sneaky opportunity to discover your favorite food, if you haven’t already, and can help you know if it’s something you can eat for the rest of your life.

I’m sure if it’s something you hate, it won’t be a hindrance. At least you’ll know you’re going to have to eat once in a while. Or every week.

8. What was your first favorite song and what is your current favorite song?

If music is important to you, this is the question to ask. Also, it’s good to be prepared to choose a song that you both like for the bride and groom’s dance at your wedding.

In other words, you don’t want Rick Roll at your wedding.

9. What is more important to you: earning a lot of money or loving what you do?

Money is always an important topic to discuss – the sooner the better. You want to find out if he thinks ambition and prestige are important or, in a way, he’s in the fight but loves what he does.

Obviously, he needs to know the same about you, because if your views are a little different, it doesn’t mean you need to break up, but that you need to accept what he wants, because it probably won’t change.

10. What is your favorite place in the whole world?

This is a great question to find out if he loves to travel or just loves his hometown. Perhaps you can plan your next adventure or talk about possible honeymoon destinations.

11. What would be the last straw for you in a relationship?

Everyone has things they consider inadmissible, and it’s good to know what his. This can be a time to discuss why, as if it’s something learned from a past relationship, or something he’s always had in mind.

You can also share what you find inadmissible, and be excited and relieved when you realize that none of you fall into these categories.

12. If you could give your younger self some advice, what would it be?

Everyone has that age where life seems depressing and never gets better.

This question can lead both of you to reflect on how much you’ve changed and matured, and how lucky you both count yourself to share that with someone who would also tell that younger being to just hang on.

13. What do you like most about yourself – physically or your personality?

I’m sure you would have a lot of answers to give about what you love most about your other half, but the fun in this question is forcing him to reflect on what he loves about himself.

I hope there is at least something, because self-love is just as important as the love you have for each other.

14. Have you had any experiences that have helped you to know that God is real?

Talking about experiences with God is a great way to get to know the other person’s relationship with Him.

I hope the two of you are on the same page about the role God will play in your lives, and if you are, this is a good question to help you understand why.

15. What’s the stupidest thing you’ve ever done?

As Forest Gump wisely said: “Stupid is the one who does stupidity”. This means that the two of you may have very different ideas of what constitutes “stupid,” but in reality, you both know that this question is about the craziest thing ever asked.

Everyone was a teenager once, and with that came some teenage thoughts and attitudes.

16. When you’re having a bad day, what makes you happy?

Your heart will leap for joy when he says, “You!”

But don’t settle for this answer, although it is good. Find out what really gets him excited when he’s down, and vice versa.

17. If your house was on fire and you could only save one thing, what would it be?

In the world we live in, or especially the conditions you live in, this can be a real thing to think about! In addition to being a good way to reflect on what is really important for you and what is really important also for the person you love.

18. If you could choose one moment in your life to relive, what would it be?

Everyone has special moments that they wish would last forever. Discover his as he discovers his, and who knows, maybe the two of you will have a new special moment that involves each other.

19. What bothers you most about certain people?

If he doesn’t say anything, he’s lying. Everyone gets annoyed about something once in a while, and there’s no harm in admitting it.

Maybe he has a significantly high level of patience, which is great, but there’s still something that bothers him.

20. If you could take any kind of animal or creature to breed, what would it be?

Would it be a lion? A cougar? A lemur?

This question is just for fun, plus it’s fun to see your creative side too.

21. What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told, and do you regret it?

It’s always good to end on a slightly more serious note, because the weight of this question may require more time to answer. Or maybe not, but you won’t know until you ask.

Getting to know each other before spending the rest of your life together is very important, and turning it into a game makes it so much more fun.

See too:

List of 100 (CEM) Interesting Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Source: familia.com.br