13 Simple Tips To Make Your Marriage STRONGER THAN EVER!

Do you want your marriage to stand the test of time?

Want to know why your marriage is going through so much trouble?

Have you and your husband/wife reached a point where you lost control of the situation?

Keep scrolling and see 13 simple tips to make your marriage stronger than ever.

1. Talk about the day you met.

And I don’t mean that in a negative way… like, for example, don’t say things like… “Remember when we used to hold hands? Why don’t we do this more.”

Instead, express it in a way that evokes positive memories within your spouse’s mind. talk about the first date amazing what you had, where it was, what you ate, etc.

Make an effort to remember something SPECIFIC about your spouse… for example, mention what they were wearing, the smile on their face, or how incredibly excited you were to be with them.

2. Give your partner time for self-love.

This is especially important if you are the authoritarian type. Letting your spouse hang out with friends, pursue their passions and hobbies, and spend time alone with family will only fuel their desire to spend more time with you.

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3. Build bonds with friends.

Your spouse should be the most important person in your life and therefore you should do your best to be interested in the people he/she loves.

While you don’t have to be best friends with his or her friends, it helps that you get along with them as much as possible.

4. Use the power of TOUCH.

Even if you’re not the type who likes public displays of affection, do your best to show your partner that you enjoy feeling their touch.

Strive to kiss each other suddenly, hold hands, give him/her massages, etc.

Physical contact will not only bring the two of you closer, it also helps in the production of “feel good” hormones. So don’t be surprised that your spouse is happier and “more in love” after a cuddle session!

5. Ask your spouse what he/she needs most often.

If he needs more affection, work on it. If he/she needs to dedicate more time to work, let him/her do it. If he wants to spend more time with you, make sure you pay more attention to this.

Sometimes the simple act of asking your spouse what he or she needs is all it takes to resolve issues that may be affecting your marriage.

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6. Accept each other’s faults.

Nobody is perfect and you know more than anyone that your partner isn’t perfect either. And that’s okay. You have to learn to tolerate your spouse’s faults, because if you don’t, you will resent them.

Recognize that you are not perfect either and that your spouse must also accept your flaws. And that’s what’s beautiful about marriage — love one another despite your flaws!

7. Transform conflicts into moments of strength.

Every marriage has its moments of conflict. It’s inevitable. And if you DON’T know how to handle these conflicts, they can create a huge barrier between you.

Knowing EXACTLY how to handle these conflicts is not only crucial to your marriage, it can even IMPROVE it.

Laughing more with your love is absolutely necessary. It’s okay to joke (and make a fool of yourself) with your spouse…laughing every now and then is one of the best ways to bring the two of you closer.

9. Remember to listen to your spouse.

Marriage means teamwork and mutual help during life’s difficult problems.

And listening to your spouse in times of distress is one of the most powerful things you can do. You don’t even have to offer solutions right now—sometimes, he or she is just wanting to vent to you.

10. Do something nice for one of your family members.

When you married your spouse, you also became part of his/her family.

And taking care of your family is a way to show your love that you are part of the same family and that can bring you even closer.

11. Compliment yourself around other people.

If you are in a group of friends or family, praise your spouse.

This shows your love that you are proud to call him/her yours and in turn, he/she will feel much closer to you.

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12. Think more about your spouse.

Make time to make your spouse happy every day. Think of small gestures that can make a difference.

For example, if you know your spouse loves coffee, make him or her a cup.

If he loves flowers, choose some for him. Is he/she a lover of literature? Buy him/her a book on his/her way home from work. These acts of affection will not go unnoticed.

13. Get help if you need it.

Sometimes it’s okay to ask for help, whether it’s from a friend, relative, or professional. Marriage is not a walk in the park—it takes a consistent level of effort and commitment for it to flourish. That’s why seeking help is very welcome at these times!

I hope these tips strengthen the bond between you even more. Always count on us!