13 Signs You’re Being an OPTION instead of a PRIORITY in your relationship

One of the hardest lessons we have to learn in life is that people aren’t always honest the way we think they are and that you won’t always be as much of a priority to them as you’d like to be.

Have you ever found yourself giving up many things in your life but at the time you needed it the most, the person didn’t care about your feelings?

Having people like that in our lives is exhausting and abusive.

We need to build relationships with people who will make us a priority as often as we make them a priority for us.

Otherwise, it’s time to literally say goodbye.

Lets go to what matters! Keep scrolling and see the 13 signs you are being an OPTION rather than a PRIORITY in your relationship:

1. You constantly catch him/her lying about seemingly insignificant things.

2. He/she always asks other people out when he/she has something arranged with you.

You are always second choice.

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3. He/she rarely remembers anything important that you told him/her about what happened in his/her life.

4. Most of his/her plans don’t involve you.

5. You find yourself making excuses to continue tolerating his/her misbehavior.

6. Often, he/she leaves you alone

7. You are often unhappy in your relationship.

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8. It takes hours or days to respond to a short Whatsapp message.

If you are a priority to this person, sometimes they may not get in touch with you right away, but generally you should get a response quickly.

If he only responds when it’s convenient, you’re probably being a convenience.

9. You avoid making plans with other people because you are expecting news from him/her that never comes…

10. You are the only one who makes the effort to make the relationship work.

Let me guess: you make all the plans. You who always ask him/her out. He/she always seems indifferent.

If that’s the case, you’re definitely not a priority.

11. All your interaction happens behind closed doors: there are never dates or date nights.

12. He/she keeps telling you that you are very needy.

And this is the biggest absurdity of all. When you approach, or when you want to be closer, he/she keeps saying that you are very needy.

13. You feel that he/she is bored when he/she is around you.

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