10 tips to increase your winning power

Enchanted by the power of seduction of French women, American writer Jamie Cat Callan spent several months traveling through the sexiest country in Europe to reveal in her book, French Women Don’t Sleep Alone (Editora Fontanar), the secrets of these women to conquer any man .

We separate 10 recommendations from the author for you to learn how to seduce in the French way and not be alone. Ready to try?

1. Stop going on dates
Start by getting off the dating treadmill and meeting your man in a group of friends. Host a dinner, hang out after work with your colleagues, ask him to go for a walk with you, anything that puts you in the context of many men and takes you out of the two-hour interview-style date.

2. walk
French women walk everywhere. They do it to be seen. When you walk with a potential lover, he doesn’t know it’s a date. Best of all, with the walk he sees other men looking at you, so he knows he has competition.

3. Fraternize at work
Ditch the neutral suits and wear something a little edgier. French women have no problem meeting men at work.

4. Be natural
The French look is natural. This means choosing a body part to show off, such as a short skirt paired with a button-up top. Or red lipstick with lightly made-up eyes and no blush.

5. Say hi to your ex
You never know when you’re going to need a date or someone to add to the group.

6. Create a group
The friend group should be made up of men, women, co-workers, and new interests. Go out with a group to the movies, bars, museums and concerts. Once again, it’s another opportunity to see and be seen.

7. Get smart
Even if you’re not really an intellectual, carry a book and wear glasses. Being smart is very seductive.

8. You are entitled to mood swings
You are the woman. He is the man. You are intense! Got a problem with that? Demand your right to be a woman, to have mood swings, to be whimsical and emotional.

9. Lingerie!
Don’t save your lace panties for a special day. Wear sexy lingerie every day. Bra and panties should always match.

10. Less is more
Try to buy a beautiful skirt this month. Eat smaller portions. French women don’t like to increase the amount of anything. They are content with what they have, not just food or clothes, but their man. They don’t try to change it, but accept it as it is.