10 Secret Fears Most Men Hide

How is it possible to have fears and doubts hidden under a muscular body, a bold look and a thick beard? “How absurd!” some women will say in a peculiar tone of voice. However, this is just an old prejudice imposed by society.

The team of awesome.club is against the perpetuation of stereotypes. That’s why today we’re going to tell you 10 things most men really care about.

From an early age, the notion is imposed on women that their body must always be in an eternal aspiration of the ideal, making them go on diets and training. With regard to men, this stereotype does not exist, but that does not mean that they are not concerned with their physical appearance and do not compare their body with the image of a muscular man on the cover of a magazine. Otherwise, why don’t men leave the gym? The most painful thing for them is being told they have a beer belly.

Finances are one of the main causes of male anxiety. Since childhood, men are taught to be the future providers, who will guarantee the well-being of the family. Male representatives, even without having a girlfriend, will worry about their financial status, vainly believing that in order to maintain a good relationship, you need to have money. However, for girls, care and attention are most important. But if it’s better for her that you have money, it’s more likely that you’re not going down the same path.

How not to worry about it, if one of the first qualities of the “perfect man” on some women’s list (according to some surveys) is their height?

If beautiful women cared less about their partner’s height, then relatively short men would have more opportunities. As they say: size doesn’t matter, but the heart does.

Men’s jealousy may sometimes not be as obvious as women’s, but it damages pride and self-esteem. Even if your partner doesn’t react when you say that your coworker is very smart, he will certainly be concerned and consider you as a potential rival. To dispel this fear, talk openly with your boyfriend, convincing him that there is no threat.

The image of an experienced male who knows all female desires haunts men in their nightmares.

And it’s because of her that they have to pretend to be experienced lovers, even increasing the number of their ex-girlfriends. In fact, they are almost as afraid as women of doing something wrong and destroying everything. Support and sincerity in any matter connected with your relationship will help them feel more confident.

Body hair is an eternal problem for some men. If you have little, maybe you don’t look so manly. If you have a lot, it looks like an animal. And the problem of baldness is another one that haunts men. If you really value your partner, then don’t make comments about it, making the situation worse.

Very often, men hear the phrase “I’m on a diet” from women. But if the man mentions something about diet, women will look at him suspiciously. However, guys also take care of their bodies and food. Everyone wants to be healthy and thin, it’s just that men don’t talk about it much.

How many articles on how to save the relationship appear on the pages of women’s magazines? But if men start talking about this topic, it will sound strange to girls.

And again we fall into the stereotype instilled by society a long time ago. A man is a strong creature who shouldn’t worry about little things like relationships that women often get their heads around.

If, before meeting her soul mate, a woman was in a relationship with a huge number of men, then competition with these “ghosts” somehow exists in the male imagination.

In addition, the man may worry about his lack of experience in relation to others. The main thing is to immediately let him know that the past is behind him and will not prevent you from having a harmonious relationship.

“Don’t cry! You’re a boy!” It’s what all guys tend to hear from an early age. In an attempt to make them strong, parents and society in general repeat this to many men, who, in adult life, end up trying to contain their emotions, fearing to appear weak. So if you see him sad or even crying, don’t tell him that, being a man, he should overcome his difficulties. He, like you, does not need to hide his feelings.