I don’t believe in love at first sight. Sure, I’ve looked at some people and thought, “I would marry that person,” but deep down I knew it was just physical attraction. If the face were different or the dress was different, my charm would end. The right person is not the one you look at and say, “It’s her!”. Something more is needed.

Putting expectations of love on someone, without having gone through countless situations with them, is the easiest way to break the face. It’s impossible to know if the hug fits, the kiss completes and the look understands you, without having tried it. The point is that the right person is not about being, but about becoming.

The right person needs time to build up. It is not always who you imagine or would like initially. Sometimes it’s where you least expect love to happen.

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The right person is not always the way you dreamed. He’s an imperfect person. The right person is often wrong, but it’s the one who is here, striving to be part of your days, trying to unravel your fears and insecurities. He is the one who makes a point of sharing his best and his best. Someone real.

At first, she may not be the most beautiful person in the world or the most pleasant of all, because we can only see someone’s true beauty after we know their attitudes and character. Let’s face it, there is no better feeling than looking at your side and feeling like you’re with the most beautiful person in the universe. In fact, the right person is not the one who hides, but the one who lets himself be known.

It’s someone who ignores, who discards all the reasons why you wouldn’t work and insists on staying. The person who sees more opportunities than difficulties, who does not put obstacles in the way and replaces the stones of the path with a rose garden.

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He’s even a bit stubborn for you. Someone who – at the worst times – makes you question why he’s still here when he could be anywhere else. He is the one who holds your hand, when the easiest thing would be to let go. The right person is not the one who promises to stay, but the one who actually stays.

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The right person is the one who has the maturity to love, who does everything possible so that his love always wins. It’s the one who values your smiles and isn’t content to be part of your life just once in a while. It is who is always with you, helping you in whatever you need.

It’s the one who’s by your side when you need a hug and who listens to you when you want to vent. She’s the one who gives you her time and makes you sure that you can live in her heart without worries. The right person gives you the answers, even before the questions arise.

You discover this person when you stop idealizing him. You find this person when you stop looking for them. Because the right person is not the one you are looking for, but the one who decides to find you.