If there is love between the couple, the relationship will not end overnight. The problem is that, even though there is a lot of love between the couple, some relationships end in the medium or long term due to the wear and tear of the relationship.

So pay attention to these 10 habits that poison and destroy the relationship, even decimating the chances of reconciliation. These habits generate hurts that only increase over time and end up breaking the limits of what is acceptable between a couple.

To prevent this from happening in your dating/marriage, here are the ones:

10 Habits That Almost Everyone Practices But That Destroys Relationships.

1- Avoid arguments

Right at the beginning of the first sign that there is going to be an argument, the person gets excited, raises his voice, gets angry, plays the victim and walks away, not wanting to hear what the partner has to say. This won’t last long!

2- Do not give an opinion

When the opinion is requested, the partner looks up, makes an indecisive face, lets out a “vixi” and says he doesn’t know. Or else he says: “whatever you solve, it’s solved”. Usually this is an attitude of the type “I don’t commit”, if it’s a zebra, the choice was the other’s.

3- Silence

Nothing worse for the relationship than the silent treatment. This is an aggressive tactic that pretends not to be. Generally, those who use it are exerting control rather than “trying to calm down” as such an attitude suggests. It’s the famous “burst”. Childish attitude that in no way contributes to the solution of problems, but is certainly a foot out of the relationship. New strategies need to be created to solve problems.

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4. Make a “shack”

This one is so obvious that maybe it shouldn’t even be on the list, but it’s good for the stallholder to know that no one is interested in his private problems, that such an attitude is ugly, unpleasant and inelegant. The old saying “dirty laundry is washed at home” is more than valid when it comes to romantic relationships.

5. Tell others everything

Usually the offended party has a tendency to go around telling others everything that happens between the couple until it reaches the point of fights and arguments. If you are already adults, you don’t have to “tell everything to your mother”, your friend, your father or whoever.

This exposure, in addition to being unnecessary, can create antipathies of your family or friends towards your spouse, which can make living together even more difficult. Unless it’s to seek professional or religious advice, or one of the two is being abused at risk, there’s no need for the others to know what’s going on in the relationship.

6. Tell a lie

An innocent little lie breeds malevolent distrust. Once your partner knows that you tell innocent lies, he/she will start to wonder what else you lie about…

7. Don’t apologize

Many people get married thinking they’ve found the right person, but then realize their first name is “always.” So you end up living with someone who never makes a mistake, who never offends or hurts anyone and who, therefore, doesn’t need to apologize. It is the “always right” sir or madam. No one can live long with someone like that.

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8. Keep everything private

There are people who value their privacy more than their partner. They don’t share passwords, talk on the phone away from their partner, that is, they are mysterious. Some privacy is even normal, but not to the point of giving rise to distrust. What the spouse feels is that there is a part of the partner that is inaccessible to him. That he/she is not whole in the relationship. A half-way relationship is a relationship that ends, usually in a short time.

9. Misuse of money

Financial issues are the biggest reasons for divorce, according to surveys. Currently followed by fidelity problems in social networks. A spouse who doesn’t know the value of money can destroy an otherwise solid and lasting relationship. Overspending, getting into debt, or being stingy with money shows immaturity.

10. Not remembering important dates for the couple

This is a controversial subject. Most people do not see the importance of the fact that their partner or themselves do not remember dates, but for many the fact that they do not remember anniversaries, important dates for the couple, is related to the importance they have in the life of the other. However, according to psychologist Tatiana Berta, this is a habit that can be deconstructed, as long as there is sensitivity.

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