Why doesn’t my partner kiss me when we have sex?

As we have said, kisses are the quintessential sign of feeling affection for someone. But what happens if your partner no longer kisses you like he did before, especially when you make love? If kisses are a way to reinforce the connection between the members of a relationship, the absence of them may be indicating an emotional distance between you and that person.

A kiss is usually a spontaneous and passionate gesture and, therefore, if your partner does not kiss you either during sexual relations or outside of them (that is, when he greets you or during a date, among others) it is because he unconsciously does not manage to give them to you, which may mean that he already He doesn’t feel the same way about you or that you are going through a relationship crisis.

In these cases, the most advisable option is for you both to sit down and talk about how you feel about each other and ask him directly the reasons why he does not feel like kissing you during your sexual relations, since if this situation becomes extends more than necessary, could be a deal breaker. On the other hand, if you talk to that person and tell them (without sounding like a reproach) that the lack of kisses is affecting you emotionally, your partner will be aware of that situation and will be able to begin to give you solutions.

You may be wondering what it means to make love without kissing. Before jumping to conclusions such as that your partner does not want you or no longer loves you, you have to ask yourself the following question: before, did that person kiss you a lot during your sexual relations or has it always been like that during sex? That is, in the latter case, the absence of kisses may be related rather to the fact that for that person kisses are not important in moments of intimacy and not because your partner does not feel desire for you.

When some people are having sex with their partner, the fact happens that when they are busy with other things like caressing you, observing your body or doing other things to excite you during intercourse, they forget to kiss you. In these cases, you can try kissing him/her yourself during sex or directly ask him/her to kiss you. That person will be happy to give them to you and will even find it very exciting.

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Another reason why your partner doesn’t kiss you when you have sex is because you have probably lost a little magic in your relationship. lack of passion It is usually a fairly common problem in stable relationships, especially in couples who have been together for years and years. At first, when we have recently met a person, it is very normal that the only thing we think about is meeting him or her and letting ourselves be carried away by passion. But when the courtship becomes more stable and we acquire more commitments and obligations such as living together, having children or other daily problems that a relationship has, the mistake is made that passion takes a backseat and sex becomes routine and boringto the point of not even kissing that person.

Although saying it sounds very simple, the only way to fix this neglect in the couple is one way: we must try to recover the passion from the beginning. This sentimental task may require a lot of time and dedication, but if we really want to continue with that person, it is worth trying. One of the ways to begin to recover that passion is spend more time on sex and include kissing again, since this gesture, in addition to giving us more connection with our partner, also helps us increase sexual desire and arousal.

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