Who was never a good odd will never be a good pair

These days, I was looking to buy a dress to go to a wedding and I went to the mall, I walked through all the stores and other malls and I couldn’t find anything. You know when you look in the window and see a dress that our: PERFECT!

So, it was just like that. But you know when you taste it and I don’t know why it looks horrible on you? What’s more, when you see someone trying on the same dress and you think: “Wow, it was perfect on her, if I had that body, if I were less this, less that”, it starts to defect you and label yourself as a problem.

Or when you look at that dress, you like it, but it has neither your size nor the color you like.

So in the same way this applies to our life. Sometimes you look at a guy and say, “Man, what a wonderful boy, he’s perfect for me”, but when you meet him, you see that he somehow didn’t suit you – and yes, there is a little disappointment. , as in the case of the dress.

Or sometimes you don’t even understand why you didn’t even get to know him, but believe me, somehow he wouldn’t make you happy, he wouldn’t make you more beautiful, he wouldn’t value the best in you.

God knows exactly why of all things, He knows who will make you happy and who will bring out the best in you. Just like that dress that looked perfect in the window and actually wasn’t, in your eyes someone may seem ideal for you, but in God’s eyes, no.

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So, if you see him with another girl and you start thinking, “Wow, she’s prettier than me, she must be really nice”, and just like in the case of the dress you start to think that the problem was you, stop and believe. , is not.

Think with me, do you invest in a dress that is one size bigger, one size smaller? Do you take home a dress that needs a lot of tweaking? Hmm, I think the answer is no to all these questions. Well then, why do we sometimes get involved with guys who have nothing to do with us?

Why do we insist on continuing to write a story that God has already put an end to? Seriously, praying just doesn’t solve it, you have to trust God and understand his answers, even if they don’t meet our desires.

When we don’t let God act or ignore his answers, it’s as if we ask to be disappointed and, yes, we often know it’s not right and even then we persist in trying to make it work. You know the guy doesn’t care about you, he keeps making you insecure, the relationship is full of “adjustments” and even then you choose to stay in it.

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These days, without commitment, I went out with a friend and then, suddenly, she calls me and says: “Friend, look at that dress!”, I confess that it didn’t catch my attention when I looked, but I decided to try it on. And yes, he looked wonderful on me. It happens when you are scattered and even financially unprepared, but you find a dress that, WOWdraws sighs.

Well, that’s life, when you least expect it, when you’re not looking, someone might show up. At first, it may not charm you like that dress in the window that didn’t charm me, but when you decide to give it an opportunity, a chance to know God’s purposes, when you allow yourself, you saw that you made the right choice, things change.

You notice that the guy calls you just to see if you’re okay, that he appreciates your smile, that he loves your hug and that he kisses you on the forehead while you wait for the elevator.

Pay attention, what I mean is that most of the time we get carried away by appearance, idealize a person and discard everything that is out of that standard. We surrender our life to God, but the loving part we want to do our own way and then we end up disappointed.

Hey, love doesn’t follow any rules, no theories. Sometimes, someone appears in your life, at a time when you feel totally “unprepared”, but just like that wonderful dress you paid in 10 installments, you have to make an effort, leave the obstacles aside and be happy.

We are often looking for the dress in the wrong place, at the wrong time, in the wrong season. You don’t take a dress home that you don’t like or that doesn’t fit your style just for fear of being undressed, nor do you get involved with someone just for fear of being alone. Who is not a good odd, will never be a good pair.

Loving someone can’t be a necessity, relationship can’t be an escape to not feel alone. Believe me, just as you have already found your perfect dress, God will put someone in your life who values ​​you and awakens the best in you. The Bible says: “Commit your way to the Lord, trust Him and He will do everything”we must deliver EVERYTHING into God’s hands, including our heart.

Thamilly Rozendo

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