What to say to a man to drive him crazy in 40 sentences and more

You may have been dating that spectacular man for a while now.

And while you’re having great sex, you want him to not forget about you.

Rather, you want me to think about you constantly.

Or maybe you’ve only met him for a while, and you need to dazzle him to keep him wanting more.

And, you don’t know how to generate that unbridled desire that makes him come back to you.

But did you know that you can turn a man on with just one sentence?

And believe me, mastering the art of the erotic word is easier than it seems.

Don’t worry, I’ll give you phrases and examples so you know what to say.

But even more important, here you will understand 8 rules to master your way of seducing him.

In order to raise your temperature, using the right words, at the right time.

Pay attention to become a true professional of eroticism.

8 rules and examples to seduce a man with words

Having a full sex life is essential for any couple.

Looks, caresses, encounters, anything goes when it comes to achieving a warm bed.

But what many of us tend to forget is that what we say plays a fundamental role.

Have you ever thought if you can seduce without saying absolutely nothing?

Yes, I know that there are intense looks that can make any man approach you.

But, if you want to keep the game going for a long time, sooner or later, you’ll have to talk.

We all have our own tricks to seduce, but let me tell you a tip:

Don’t underestimate the power of the word.

A cunning, spicy and even mischievous phrase said on time can warm anyone up.

And besides, it’s even easier and cheaper than buying new lingerie, don’t you think?

1) Know it

The art of seduction is a complex world.

And it has as many teachers as there are people in the world.

By this I mean that we all have our own style to seduce.

And each one knows what their best weapons are when it comes to conquering.

But, I must warn you that, in order to fully seduce a man, you must know him.

If you are already sharing his bed, be smart, and pay attention to him.

Finding out what turns him on will help you pick the right words with ease.

What do I mean?

If he doesn’t like antics in the extra hot bed, he probably won’t be comfortable with “dirty” lines.

If you don’t know him well yet, don’t worry. It can be solved.

You can perform the famous “trial and error” until you find the right phrase that turns it on.

2) Work their imagination (and yours!)

When it comes to words, we all turn to the imagination.

The authors of “Lo que en verdad nos pone”, Sonsoles Fuentes and Laura Carrión, say,

«…the sexual relation begins at the moment in which you begin to think about it, when the imagination starts up. Because that is where the arousal begins: in the brain, the sexual organ par excellence.»

Why am I mentioning it to you?

Because as obvious as it may seem, when we are trying to seduce, we are clear about the objective (warming up), but we forget the means (imagination).

In order for both of their brains to get going, you have to give them tools.

So, how does the imagination work with the word? I’ll tell you simply: ATTITUDE.

3) With attitude

What I will tell you now is a matter of logic.

If you don’t believe what you tell him, he will believe less.

Posing as a sex bomb can be easy on words.

But I assure you that how you say these words will reveal if you really feel that way or not.

To tell him erotic lines, you will really have to feel what you say.

Obviously, there’s a bit of acting here (that’s the fun of it all!).

The trick is to let go and see everything as a game, where no one judges you.

So, don’t just rely on the content of the word.

The way you say it, as well as the moment, are key to the result.

4) Scenic coherence

Remember that, in order to raise their temperature with words, you must put yourself on stage.

That is, characters, setting, and even clothing, if necessary.

What’s more, there are situations where you could have your own imaginary script.

With introduction, middle and end. Although… you already know the outcome, right?

Here is an example so you understand what I mean:

He is in the office, you are at home. But you want to watch it at night and have fun.

You write to him on whatsapp, saying:

“I already found the little ears.”

Of course, he does not understand what you are talking about and thinks that you have the wrong chat.

You insist, and you say:

“The rest of the outfit is black, but the little ears are white and I also have a matching tail.”

Again, he doesn’t understand what you’re about.

And you finish by saying:

“So come home early tonight because this Playboy bunny is looking forward to playing with you.”

Do you undesrstand now?

I assure you that if you do something like that, he will be at home as soon as he leaves the office ready for anything.

Of course, do not disappoint him, because he will be waiting to meet the bunny, not you.

Warning! For your words to have an effect, they must be believable.

Telling him that you are naked walking down the street will not generate eroticism, but surprise.

Look for sensual contexts, but existing in your routine, that make him fantasize easily.

Going back to the example of the WhatsApp conversation.

If you don’t expect him dressed as a bunny, he won’t believe you the next time you want to play with words.

5) Play with the forbidden

Generally, what turns you on the most is what puts you on edge.

What appeals to a secret fantasy, the one that bothers or contradicts the principles.

Talking dirty in bed is often a way to explore the forbidden.

According to Dr. Ava Cadell, a sex therapist, couples talk dirty to:

“increase their arousal and share fantasies that they may not want to come true, but talking about them can be even better.”

In an article for MedicalDaily, Daryl Cioffi, a neuropsychologist specializing in couples, says that,

“People really enjoy talking dirty because it activates all the regions of their brain while their body is also stimulated.”

And he clarifies that this experience is full body and mind, and almost liberating because,

“During dirty talk, similar areas of the brain are touched as when we swear. So very often, as your brain sees it, the dirtier the better.”

Don’t be afraid to talk dirty in bed, it can be interesting.

6) Take control

I must warn you something. Once you open the door to saucy phrases, anything goes.

Although, you must be explicit in where it will have value.

For example, some people may be turned on by words like “slut” or “slut.”

Even if they find these words offensive outside of bed.

Within it, they feel comfortable both saying them and being called that way.

With this I want to tell you that if you take control of the word, you can have freedom.

And become whoever you want.

When we assume a personality through words or role play we release our fantasies.

And this, dear reader, LOVES IT.

That a man can know you from the deepest and most carnal, is a guarantee of eternal warmth.

7) Use your fantasies

A very easy way to quickly get him in tune is by evoking his fantasies.

For example, if you and he want to be the leads in 50 Shades of Grey, say,

“When you come home, I’ll let you tie me to the bedpost and blindfold me.”

You didn’t say anything dirty, but you automatically took it to hidden ground.

You can take advantage of common fantasies, or let him know YOUR fantasies.

Which, as I mentioned earlier, will undoubtedly fascinate you.

By sharing your fantasies with him you are showing him that,

you want him to be your sexual partner, you want to take the sexual bond to the next level: try new things, you feel comfortable with him, you are ready to share your deepest desires WITH HIM, he knows new facets of you that will surely drive him crazy, surely, You will seem more interesting and attractive.

Sonsoles Fuentes and Laura Carrión indicate that a fantasy can bring new sexual games.

This means that they do not need to make them come true.

Since they may open creativity to allow new ways of being intimate.

The authors mention that

«…as a result of a fantasy that arose in the mind, small games and innovations are incorporated into sexuality that take us away from routine. What more can you ask for something that is free on top of that?»

What do you think? Do you dare to share your fantasies with him?

8) Give instructions

Giving instructions and being decisive when speaking often drives them crazy.

This is ideal for when you are together.

Or, why not, in long-distance relationships too.

He sure turns on easily if you send him a message saying:

“I need you to fuck me hard tonight.”

Or, if you live together, you might want to get creative by saying:

“Wait for me naked in the kitchen, I need to try new flavors today.”

Another easy way to get your partner horny by giving instructions is to talk dirty.

The best way to do this is to be simple and direct.

following the advice from sex columnist Dan Savage,

“Tell him what you’re doing to him, tell him what you’re going to do to him, tell him what you just did to him.”

Do not hide anything and tell him everything that crosses your mind, without filters!

40 phrases to eroticize it anywhere

By Whatsapp

Text messages are ideal for the sexual foreplay.

If you can generate a hot conversation, you can make him up for anything, every time.

Technology allows us to be a little more creative.

And it’s easier to role-play over messages, since not seeing each other prevents shyness.

Take advantage of videos or images that help put together your risqué conversation.

Here are a couple of ideas for you to have fun.

1) Send him a photo from a segment of erotic literature

That’s right, those spicy books that we have all read at some point can be helpful.

A scene from Twilight, or Lolita will do.

For example, here is an excerpt from the book ‘The Shape of her’ by Rowan Somerville,

«She unbuttoned the front part of her blouse and opened it to expose her chest, (…). He took it between her lips and sucked… »

The only thing you should keep in mind is that what you make him read must be something you like.

Because this will give free rein to your imagination, and you probably want to put it to the test.

2) Talk about the Kamasutra

That’s right, mention that new pose you found while researching the Kamasutra.

Or directly send him a photo of the chosen position and write to him:

“Tonight I want you to do this to me”

3) Use single words

You can use single words, so that he and his imagination do the rest.

For example:

«I have seen this sign and it made me miss you» (send a photo of a street sign that says the word “hard” “long” “hot”, etc)

4) Suggest ideas

You can start a conversation of “Guess what I bought for us online?”

And end the conversation by sending him a sex toy that you bought, asking him:

“Will you help me prove it?” or “shall we play tonight?”

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