What does it mean if a man asks you for photos and tricks to make him sexy

These days, there are many ways to meet your potential twin flame.

There are still movie encounters to meet your future love, I know.

But technology has opened new horizons to find a possible partner.

Of course, this type of communication requires crossing the limits from time to time.

And it is that today, online conversations lend themselves to much more than just chat.

It gives them free rein to make unusual requests like “can you send me a picture of yourself?”

“QUE!?” Well, don’t be taken by surprise, photographs are commonplace.

Although, it is inevitable to ask yourself why he wants a picture of you.

And, surely you have doubts about what kind of photo he wants you to send him, right?

Here I will leave you the answer to your questions on the subject.

In addition, I will reveal what he hides behind his request.

And I’ll tell you how to fix it in a way that you feel comfortable too.

And why not, in the sexiest way possible.

Because, after all, the photos are for two, the one who poses in it and the one who receives it.

And both should have fun doing it. Do not you believe it?

instinctive behavior

You must accept that men and women tend to have different behaviors.

That does not mean that we are different, we have many similarities, of course.

But when it comes to physical attraction, men function differently on a subconscious level.

Regardless of the principles that one may have, instinctive behavior exists.

This instinct has peculiarities of each gender.

And, although in our times things are changing, these particularities still exist.

Sex therapist David J. Ley explains the importance of photography in the male world.

Men in general (there are always exceptions) tend to value physical attractiveness.

And from there, interest may or may not arise to continue in a conversation or relationship.

In fact, there are men who even feel comfortable sending photos without even being asked.

And these images may have a sexual connotation and generate rejection.

Given this, Dr. Ley says:

“It is important that women and men understand that this behavior, even when it feels unpleasant and rude, is not personal. (…) This dynamic, is not proof that men are disgusting perverts and women are pure, (…) it reveals some differences between men and women’s sexual personalities.”

A cnnespañol article also explains it.

In this report, the therapist Jeannette Stern indicates about men who,

“impulsiveness plays a big role in this (…) Someone who is more impulsive is more likely to send the photo, (…) while a less impulsive person might want to, but then think better of it.”

It is evident that this impulsivity is related to sexuality. But it is not always the case.

There are times when the desire to know who you are talking to is stronger.

And a request as simple as “meeting you” through a photo, hide nothing more than that.

To know more about you.

Why are you asking me for photos?

Beyond that I want to know you better.

Here I tell you 4 typical reasons why a man may ask you for a photo.

Of course, there may be specific reasons that make him want a photo of you.

Never forget that each person and situation is different.

But, there are certain typical patterns associated with this request that I can share with you.

1) He wants to know if you are pretty

It’s the harsh truth, and I know it hurts, but that’s how basic the situation can get.

If a man needs photos of a woman, he may want to appreciate her beauty.

So get used to the idea that this may be the reason.

If he likes you, he will surely look for more things in common to start something with you.

And, don’t forget that you have the right to want to know the same thing, if it is important to you.

2) He wants to know if you are his type

Beyond how pretty you can be, being his type will be important.

Today appearance is no longer as important as personality.

But unfortunately, the canons of standard beauty still apply.

And it is common that he wants to know how you look. Especially if they don’t know each other yet.

Although, it is also important for them to realize if you are their type.

I’m not talking about whether you’re the blonde of his dreams, or you look like a sexy redhead.

I mean how you dress or the way you pose or the type of photo you send him will say a lot about you.

This will make him want to know more or less about your life.

And it may even give one more excuse to keep getting to know each other.

You probably already know that beyond appearances, in reality, what makes a man fall in love are other factors.

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3) He wants to know if he measures up with you

Just as this situation may embarrass you, it could also happen to him.

Many times, the original reason for a photo is to know if you are “too” for him.

There are men who are shy or do not feel sure of themselves and are afraid of meeting.

That is, they are afraid that, having met, you will not want to be with him.

So, by asking you for a photo, he is resolving the question of whether he is up to you.

This usually happens in cases where they consider you too pretty.

If you think this is the case, be careful how you speak to him so you don’t hurt his feelings.

Remember that nothing is as important as getting to know the other for who they really are.

4) Sexting

If he hasn’t sent you a sex photo yet, it may not be clear what he wants.

Has he given you clues to send him “daring” photos?

If so, you may be facing a case of sexting.

According to a GCFGlobal digital safety article, sexting is:

“the term used to describe the sending of sexual or erotic content, primarily photos and videos, created by the same sender, to other people over the internet.”

If you are new to this way of communicating, you are not alone.

And, believe me, it’s normal for you to be ashamed to do it.

Exposing your body in front of a camera is not for everyone, you must have self-confidence.

And, more than anything, you must be cautious about the risks that sexting can generate.

Because, it’s risky to release a nude photo of you into cyberspace.

But calm down, this is not a reason not to do it.

If you have fun having these kinds of hot conversations, here are some tips to do it without fear.

Tips to take photos like a sexy goddess

*Value yourself:

if you really want to send him such photos, there is nothing wrong with that. Just keep in mind that it is you who decides to do it and not because he asks you to.

*Make sure he is the one who receives these photos:

try to send it by a secure means and make sure to delete the images from your mobile if you know that someone else will be able to see them (and you don’t want them to!)

*Try not to see your face:

This is only in case you want to try something new, but you are not 100% sure about it, in this way, you will be protected.

*Do not show visible marks that identify you:

if you have a tattoo that characterizes you or a mole or birthmark, do not expose it. This could also protect you when sending your image.

*It does not have to be a nude:

Attitude is everything. A suggestive pose or sexy clothing is more than enough to turn him on. Sometimes, the imagination warms more than I make it explicit.

*Do what makes you feel safe and comfortable:

remember, it is not necessary to do everything they ask of you. You should only agree if the situation amuses you and you feel safe.

*You can also ask for photos:

this is a game for two. If you also want to know how it feels to receive a hot image or want to meet him or see him in another way, you have the right to ask for the same in return. Have fun!

*Make this an interesting game:

If you like to feel the adrenaline in this type of experience, make it more tempting by sending images that show little, but say a lot, one by one. It would be like a kind of puzzle. You can accompany these images with a conversation to match, for example, describing your legs and then submitting a picture of them wearing a garter belt or a pair of heels that make them look sexy.

Sonsoles Fuentes and Laura Carrión explain in their book “What really turns us on”:

«The sexual relationship begins at the moment you start thinking about it, when the imagination starts up. Because that is where the arousal begins: in the brain, the sexual organ par excellence.»

Go ahead and let your imagination run wild. Without a doubt, you will leave him wanting you.

5 good reasons to send a photograph

He is asking you: if they already know each other, he enjoys you and wants to have you with him. Or maybe add a little spice to the relationship with daring photos to break the routine. The important thing is that he is asking you. You are flesh and blood: if he asks for daring photos, let’s face it, he doesn’t need your photos. If he wants to get horny, he can do it with the help of technology by looking for pornography online, but instead, he’s asking you. He wants it to be something intimate between you and him. They love it: not only is it a way to take you with him everywhere, it also strengthens the bond and, in the case of daring photos, there is no man who can resist a good hot photo. Who better than you to raise the temperature?
He must also do it: As I have already mentioned to you before. This is a game for two. If you feel comfortable and safe, you also have every right to ask for a photo of him to get to know him and find out how the image of him makes you feel. It’s fun: if you dare to sexting, it is a good way to do something different, especially if you are in an established relationship. A bit of adrenaline and raising the temperature with imagination never hurts.

What if I don’t want to do it?

The answer is: nothing!

The truth is that the vast majority of men know that not all of us agree to send photos.

And it is that this type of situation does not adapt to everyone equally.

Sending a photo is an intimate act that demands trust with the other.

Above all, considering the risks we have today when sharing something digitally.

And if you don’t have such a link yet or don’t even know who asks you for it, it’s hard to do.

So don’t feel bad if you don’t want to.

The most important thing is that you prioritize your wishes over his.

Remember, doing something because you feel pressured is not a good sign.

You must be clear that you feel…