Types of men you can never have a happy family with

According to some studies of the last 10-15 years, the average age of marriage has increased to 28-32 years. More and more people are looking to stay single longer, particularly men, and most don’t want to be in a long-term relationship. But not everyone expresses their intentions to remain alone on the first date. Also, many people don’t even realize that they’re not ready or can’t have something serious.

O awesome.club compiled all sorts of men with whom a long and happy family life will not work. An important detail: there are signs of one type or another in almost all men, but we are talking about pronounced characteristics that will not change, no matter how much you want them to.

If a man’s main celebration is his mother’s birthday, and he first consults with her before making any decisions, then it’s best to leave that boyfriend aside. There is nothing wrong with loving your family, quite the opposite, but when the mother controls every step of her son, who is almost 40 years old, something strange is happening. Don’t try to change a man like that, his mother will always be the head of his family. Someday she’ll decide you’re no good for her son and he’ll say goodbye so fast you won’t even have time to process it.

In this case, everything is simple: these men don’t love you, they usually just “love to love”. For a womanizer, quantity is the main criterion of success. Almost every woman next to a man like that thinks they can change the way they are, but in the end, the only one who will change will be you: he will find a replacement very soon. Or two. Or even three, while you still say he was your only love.

Being selfish is sometimes very helpful, but this option should only be used in specific cases and not be a “factory setting” controlling all your words and actions. A selfish man seems easy. Organize everything around you comfortably for yourself: the place and time of the meetings, what they will do, the restaurant they will go to… and the list goes on. Remember that for this class of people you also have a certain comfort, and you will need it until you start demanding more attention than a plant in the window.

It doesn’t differ much from the selfish, but the narcissus does not seek comfort, it craves attention and recognition. And the only person who can love someone like that unconditionally is himself. Even next to him, he will admire how good he is. These men put their “self” first, despise everyone and take pride in every step they take. If you don’t seek the eternal role of “maid of honor” that will accompany her majesty, end this relationship as soon as possible and remove her number from your contact list.

At first, it seems that your partner is perfect: he accepts all your proposals, shares interests and enthusiastically complies with all instructions. Until you see that he can’t make his own decisions, not even to choose a pizza. Next to this type of man, you will have to decide everything yourself, in addition to taking full responsibility for your partner. If you don’t want to be the only one fighting for the relationship, stay away from a guy like that: he’s not going to suddenly become a determined and willing man.

Is he over 40 and never married? Or did his two previous girlfriends leave him after many years of relationship because the marriage proposal never came? Of course, the reasons can be different, but it is more common for a man to simply not want to take responsibility and avoid any mention of a possible compromise. Just because everything is fine the way it is and loneliness doesn’t bother you. You will not become a person close to him, you will remain a stranger, forever.

On the second date he criticizes your appearance, on the fourth he enrolls you in a gym, and two months later strongly recommends that you stop talking to some of your friends. And while it seems like he does it from his heart and wishes you the best, who likes to always take orders like a 5-year-old? Such relationships will lead you into a trap, because the closer you get, the more violent and varied the criticism. These men do not admit that they are wrong, which is why it is very difficult to change this attitude.

If he’s jealous of you, it’s because he loves you. At least, that’s how we’re used to thinking. But between mild jealousy and its pathological form, there is a big difference. If, in the first case, a man is more likely to be sure of his choice at the expense of other people’s approval, the second option is almost a disease. Any look or word from another man, light clothing, or flashy makeup is perceived as a willingness to deceive him. With a jealous, you will always be under suspicion. But isn’t trust the basis of a relationship?

Have you ever met a man who falls into the categories mentioned in the post? Tell us your experience in the comments.