They’ve been lying to you: Why is Friday the 13th a good day for love?

He Friday the 13th It is currently considered an unlucky day; However, this was not the case before and it was considered ideal to connect with love.

For ancient cultures, Friday the 13th was a day exclusively for the goddesses.

What does Friday the 13th have to do with love?

Some cultures, such as the Sumerian, Egyptian, and Roman, worshiped female deities who were equally important as male deities.

Planets, satellites and stars were even associated with them, such as the Moon, which represents maternal energy or Venus, the goddess of love and beauty.

In fact, a planet was linked to each day of the week: Monday to the Moon, Tuesday to Mars… and Friday was dedicated to Venus, which is why it was considered a favorable day for love.

The number 13

On the other hand, 13 is a master number that helps manifest intimate desires.

According to mysticism, in matriarchal cultures 13 was considered a sacred number, but when patriarchy prevailed, it was transformed into a “diabolical” number.

That is why in the Bible the end of the world begins in chapter 13 of Revelation; Some calculate that the destruction of the Tower of Babel occurred on Tuesday the 13th and at the last supper, there were 13 people (12 apostles plus Jesus), and the result was a betrayal.

It is also infamous for card 13 of the Tarot, which is the Nameless Arcanum or better known as Death, which represents the end of a cycle and transformation.

Proof that it was not a “bad” or negative number is that many calendars from various cultures are governed by the Moon, which is at 13, not like that of the Sun, which is at 12.

That is why the Chinese, Hebrew, Muslim, and even Catholic calendars are governed by the phases of the Moon for their festivities.

So according to lunar and matriarchal cultures, Friday the 13th is a very positive day for dating and connecting with other people in a loving way, since Friday is the day of Venus, goddess of love and beauty, and the 13th helps to achieve the wishes.

Friday the 13th ritual

Find an intimate place, it could be while taking a shower or in your room.

Apply essential oil to your wrists and neck, use aromatherapy, or use rose, jasmine, or vanilla incense, aromas associated with Venus.

Then concentrate, close your eyes and focus on your breathing. Identify negative thoughts with your self-esteem (like you weren’t “enough” for someone) and say goodbye to them.

Then say positive mantras like “I am love”, “I am perfect just the way I am”, “I love myself more every day”, “I know how to set limits for people”, etc.

At night, do your beauty routine calmly, focused, consciously and loving yourself. If you feel comfortable, go to the mirror and tell yourself how much you love yourself and how beautiful you look.

Friday the 13th is a day to celebrate your femininity, how important it is to be a woman and love yourself primarily to give love to others and for it to return.