There is no way to believe in words when attitudes say the opposite

Yes our attitudes matter. They matter to you, to the person you want to conquer, to whoever is by your side. Words are really beautiful, but if they are not accompanied by attitudes, they are empty. Our attitudes sound louder than any words. An I love you is not so valuable if there is no demonstration of it.

Men understand, women want a man with attitude, of course all your words will help, but if they don’t come with a dash of attitude they are just… words. One day talking to her, I heard her say how hard she had to believe in words that didn’t translate into attitude.

And I was thinking: How many women don’t feel exactly the same, after so many bad experiences, after so many wounds?

You can make a difference, we men are not all the same as it seems to be or as they say around. Today, you have the opportunity to soothe the uncertainties and insecurity of a turbulent heart.

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You can try to rip the insecurities out of her life, show that not everything is a thorn, you can and will be the safe haven she needs. Look, because the achievement is not just about praise.

The art of conquering involves much more than theory, it implies doing things that someone appreciates so that she, in some way, becomes enchanted with her crazy way of being. Conquest is about attitude, who you are, what you are willing to do for her, and especially who you are in God’s eyes.

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Yes, that has a big influence for us men.

A heart surrendered to God allows Him to write your love story. So ask yourself: What do I have to add to her life spiritually? How can God use me in her life? And then, you will be sum in someone’s life.

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Before we look for a wife, a companion, someone to share our dreams, prepare coffee and not forget the good morning kiss, we need to seek the true owner of your heart.

And so, that someone doesn’t need to be the girl with tons of likes on photos or be famous on instagram, she doesn’t need to be good in the kitchen and always tidy. She needs to have a Christ-like character, we need to walk together in the same purpose. The beauty of youth is useless if the character completely flees from what we believe.