There are “magical people” surrounding us everywhere.

Magical people are humble and authentic, they genuinely connect with us and offer us healthy and deep friendships. Let’s talk more about them in the following lines!

There is “magical people” surrounding us everywhere. They are those with whom you know happiness, those that help you fly, shine and unload your backpack. They are people with whom you share complicity, permanence.

Sometimes it goes without saying “I am by your side” because there are too many words. Sometimes you fit in with a person and out of nowhere you are guided by the melody of the “love me well”. It is a healthy bond, clear in content, open to experiences. Friendship is one of those with sincere looks that lighten sorrows and help us get rid of the obstacles that arise.

“There are magical people. I promise you, I’ve seen them. They are hidden in all corners of the planet. Disguised as normal. Disguising his special way of being. They try to behave like others. That is why, sometimes, it is so difficult to find them. But when you discover them there is no turning back. You can’t get rid of his memory. Don’t tell anyone, but they say their magic is so strong that if it touches you once, it lasts forever.”

-Unknown author-

True friends can be counted on the fingers of one hand.

True friends can be counted on the fingers of one hand. This is a great truth that probably no one can deny. This is natural, since we cannot square expectations, feelings, emotions, thoughts and hobbies with each person who passes through our life.

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There are people with whom we connect in a special way and to whom experiences link us, using this to support one of the most important planes of our life: the social one. As Aristotle said, we are social animals and, therefore, we need these unions to feel complete.

“Magical people” are those who have great social and emotional qualities, those who give us support, rescue us and guide us. In other words, those who have social intelligence, the first cousin of emotional intelligence.

Social intelligence is defined as people’s ability to relate. According to Daniel Goleman, it has two key ingredients to achieve a good flavor of the main dish:

The social awareness: is the ability to be sensitive to the internal state of another person, to perceive non-verbal emotional signals and understand their feelings, thoughts and intentions. It is, therefore, about: Tuning in and really listening. Giving room for the other to say what they want to say. Giving the possibility for the conversation to follow a certain course for everyone. For this, a true knowledge of how we function is essential. social level, since without this we will not be able to decode the social signals that are revealed.Social aptitude: It is the skill that allows us to establish good relationships and bond taking into account the needs of others. In other words, in addition to being socially conscious, we have to know how to build fluid and effective exchanges. To do this you have to:Learn to present yourself.To care about the needs of others and act accordingly.

In short, social intelligence is not only taking time to listen but deeply attuning to the feelings of others and giving rise to a more intimate contact that sustains. The “magical people” They are socially and emotionally intelligent, which gives them that status, a gift of expressiveness that attracts others.

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They are also usually humble, authentic and genuine people. They act from the heart and do not seek to please but they achieve it through their simplicity and natural brilliance. They look into your eyes with compassion and sympathy, they smile at you with cordiality and sincerity; They listen to you without judging you and show you the most optimistic side in each situation.

In this sense, as we have been saying, there are relationships that are forged and enhance the possibility of sharing what moves us. These unions hook us into life, encourage us to be better and uncover the dark areas that shadow our soul.

Actually, although it may seem distant to us, social and emotional intelligence is something that is within our reach. Therefore, do not rule out crossing paths with “magical people” today and, above all, do not rule out the possibility of releasing magic for someone.

Illustrations by Kristina Webb and Anne Soline