The wrong person at the right time

You need to understand that the problem is not, and never was you. You were never wrong to do your best and expect him to do the same. There are people who are content with little, and as much as you gave a lot, he wasn’t worthy of it all.

You need to understand that you weren’t wrong when you decided to learn how to cook his favorite dish, to please him, it turns out that he just didn’t need all that dedication, if you had made a fried egg, you would have already made him happy, for he was completely indifferent to their effort.

You need to understand that you weren’t wrong when you shared your whole life with him, he just wasn’t the least bit interested in being a part of it.

You weren’t wrong when you gave all your love, because feeling too much is never a mistake, wrong was he when he preferred to be afraid of all this, instead of striving to be worthy of all that feeling.

You didn’t make a mistake in believing the best in him, in helping him to be better. Wrong was he to settle for such a minimized version of himself.

You’re not wrong to abandon a boat you’ve been rowing alone for so long, because, deep down, you always knew that that hole in the middle of it would one day make it sink. It was his choice to let the boat sink, remember that, so let him sink alone, after all, that’s what he wanted, wasn’t it?!

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It’s not selfish for you to do that, quite the contrary, it’s altruism. You’re giving him exactly what he’s always wanted, even if it means abandoning his feelings, his wants. Don’t feel bad about leaving, you’re not wrong to love yourself.

You didn’t make a mistake when you chose him over everyone else, It’s wrong for him to let you go, just because his lack of self-esteem makes him prefer quantity over quality.

Understand that you have never been wrong for giving too much, feeling too much, dedicating yourself too much. Your only mistake was spending so much time with a person who didn’t deserve anything you were anything you did. You’re ready, you’re on time, but he’s the wrong person, always has been. You don’t have to delay your life to wait for him to be on time for him.

Whoever wants it, makes it happen. Who wants, gives value without having to lose.

Diandra Ferracini

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