The power of words and how they affect relationships –

The power of words is something unconscious: we don’t always stop to reflect deeply on how much they can help us or affect our emotions. However, the fact is that they reflect our feelings and are decisive for our lives to make more sense.

Psychology says that words have a determining power: they can either build a great relationship or character, or destroy them.

So let’s explain why you should exercise their use, making good use of this wonderful device (we at the Blog are suspicious…lol)!

The power of words in a practical way

Language is our ability to communicate with others. We express desires, anxieties and feelings through it.

In the case of words, when we construct a sentence and say it, or write it to someone, we are actually “overflowing” a part of our unconscious.

It is the transformation of a complex series of experiences and emotions, which become a specific message.

This is perceived by others not only through the words we select, but also through the way we say them: the right tone of voice can alert, at the same time as it can alleviate or stimulate.

And in this game of communication, the power of words lies in precisely capturing what the recipient needs, in order to make correct use of them.

In other words, we cannot simply say “whatever comes to mind”, without filters. This can lead to unpleasant consequences or hurt loved ones.

On the other hand, a relationship often becomes difficult due to the lack of dialogue – as dialogue is also a way of showing love.

How to use the correct words

So, how do you know which words to use or not?

In fact, spontaneity is wonderful: it indicates combined naturalness and originality and makes us different from others.

The problem lies in letting sincerity run wild, especially in moments of conflict. Weighing your words is crucial to maintaining healthy relationships: whether with your partner, friends or family.

A golden tip to know if words are on your side is to observe people’s reactions more carefully. Certainly, when words of affection, encouragement and phrases of love are spoken, people react much better.

If you notice reactivity or sadness in your communication, it’s time to reevaluate! After all, positive words really have the power to stimulate, while negative words slow us down and can also distance us from those who are dear to us.

By adopting a positive attitude towards communication, you may see substantial and beneficial changes happening, even within yourself!

The power of words in messages

Therefore, writing, for example, emerged to record humanity’s ideas and important facts for society.

Since its probable creation, in 3000 BC by the Sumerians, until today, a lot has certainly changed.

Currently, words are, in addition to being functional, a way of showing consideration, appreciation, showing feelings and above all: creating bonds.

However, their main power has always been to break down borders – whether physical or between people! Argentine writer Alberto Manguel talks about this in the video below (press the first icon, next to the gear, to activate the caption):

Cool huh?

Even though people are increasingly in a hurry or communicate less in writing, it is important to understand that communication is essential for us and that those who master the power of words have a huge difference!

Below is a powerful quote from none other than Sigmund Freud:

“Modern science has not yet produced a tranquilizing medicine as effective as a few kind words.”

When we are able to touch someone’s heart, whether by comforting them, making it clear how special they are or simply bringing them a word of positivity, we gain more appreciation.

Furthermore, we are considered someone who cares and contributes to the development of others. That’s what “earning points” is, right?

Therefore, don’t be afraid to express your feelings and desires, even if in a subtle way or in your own way. In fact, the results are very enriching for both parties. ?

Inspire with phrases

With all this in mind, how about giving a creative gift that values ​​not only someone special, but also the power of your words transformed into ACTIONS?

At we create personalized frames that transform a unique event or day into a beautiful record of what the sky and stars were like.

You can personalize it with the words you prefer, in a model that highlights the celestial map of that day with a striking title or one that makes the message itself the central element:

Choose the date, place and time and enjoy celebrating a day in the past or future that is important to you or someone you care about!

If you want inspiration for phrases and thoughts, here you will find a wide variety of themes:

Phrases and thoughts in one place

The important thing is to demonstrate through words how incredible it is that the entire universe collaborated to make this day possible.

Having this milestone and looking at it every day is the reinforcement that our mind needs to understand that yes, we are loved and our lives really matter – whether for ourselves or for the people around us.

Make good use of words and make/be happy! ?