The important thing about love is that it is eternal while it lasts.

Love has to have a future, at least while it exists. That is to say, the existence of something that maintains hope for what remains to be lived has to be clearly felt. In other words, a shine in the complicity of two hearts that love each other.

Although we are aware that There is nothing eternal and even less so when we talk about feelings., the truth is that something as strong as love has to seem that way to us. At least while it exists.

It is difficult to manage these terms in a world that erases our smiles in a hurry. But the truth is that if the stars shine it is only because we stop to look at them, because if we didn’t they wouldn’t even exist for us. The same thing happens with love, we have to observe it to know it.

Love is not found, it is built

Sometimes we feel that love is no longer what it was, that it has been distorted and that only fleeting things exist. Then we become disappointed because we do not know our partners, because we are not sure that they are the love of our life and because we fail to understand that love is much more than the immediacy of two bodies that love each other.

Love does not arise if we limit it; that is If we put an expiration date on it, we also put a price on it. What’s more, sometimes it is usually cheap because it costs us little (in terms of effort, of course). A couple of looks with a kiss and a verse that rhymes “I love you” as light as a feather.

It’s something like bodies and needs are not making us lose our way. You don’t choose who you fall in love with, neither the time nor the place. That’s not love, that’s other things. Love is more transcendent and purer.

The illusion of a life together

Having the hope or the idea that our love will last generates trust and common projects. These two ingredients are essential to achieve happiness and stability in our relationship.

We have to be brave and commit to the moments. Because love is of no use if we imprison it from the beginning and do not believe in its power or strength. Precisely this marks the abyss between a couple and a life partner.

If we talk about true love we do it about something that cannot be defined or delimited. We cannot even control it or bind it, because love is so vigorous that even being naked it does not feel vulnerable.

I mean, A love is lived as if life were eternal but not the other way around. We will enjoy love more if we manage to stop impatience and rushing through the stages. In short, if we get rid of the fear of impermanence, change and the cycles of love.