I have the theory that the first kiss is one of the things that defines whether it goes ahead or not.
I’m not talking about someone that you stay in some “club” in life, but someone you really planned and wanted to meet and get to know.

You’ve passed the first impression test, which is eliminatory and doesn’t allow for second calls, you’ve gone through the possible nervousness of the date and now’s the time to take action and close the night… but what if the kiss doesn’t go well? If it doesn’t fit or I don’t know any other reason that makes a kiss bad?

If the first kiss isn’t good and if there’s no chemistry, it’s over. It can be the most interesting person and the best conversation you’ve ever had, gone!

Don’t force a second chance because settling into a bad kiss thinking it will get better is wasting time.

Some kisses don’t really fit.

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I don’t believe in bad kissing or bad kissing. I believe in kissing that doesn’t fit. Just like a tight shoe that hurts you can end up serving someone else, a kiss that doesn’t fit you can fit someone else.

Each one has its own way.

You can even have the patience to adapt to the other’s kiss or try to adapt to yours. I don’t recommend it, but good luck with that.

Or the first kiss might fit perfectly. And that elevates all other qualities of the person by 10x.
When you have chemistry right away, everything flows much better and naturally, even conversation becomes easier, laughter is more frequent and the desire is to want those moments not to end.

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Few kisses during intercourse will be as memorable as the first kiss.
The first kiss has all that anxiety, expectation and a certain nervousness that give the special touch of the moment.
Yes, a first kiss that fits makes all the difference.

The first kiss matters, and a friend of mine once said:

“- I wanted to be with this girl for a while but she was always busy with internships and college. I was kind of in love because she’s totally my type, we talked for hours always and several times she said that I was her type, that she was into me and everything. Finally, she had a break from studying and we scheduled a movie.

– I’m very against first date at the movies – I said – it’s 2 am next to someone you’re dying to talk to but you have to keep quiet.

– Yeah, now it’s gone… But then we met, saw the movie and then we went to eat. The night was super fun and it was clear, clear, clear that we had everything to do. OK. So I took the girl home. I stopped the car at the entrance to her building. We talked for a few minutes and I just looked at her mouth, fixed, cracked!

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“Like a psychopath, I know.

– No, she was saying something about laser hair removal and I was just thinking about kissing that girl. I’ve been imagining what that mouth and kiss would be like for weeks. All night I was just waiting for a moment or an opening, but it never came. So she was talking, talking, talking… I got close and kissed her!

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– That’s great! I thought you were going to ask for the kiss. Nothing more annoying than that…

– You know when you kiss someone and the world stops? Do you hear Frank Sinatra singing in your ear? Do you see fireworks? Do you forget all the problems in the world and the bills to pay?

– How beautiful.

– Then! There was none of that! haha. It was bad, man. Her tongue felt like a helicopter inside my mouth. It felt like I was undergoing a laryngoscopy, I don’t know. And in the middle of the kiss, the bullet that was in her mouth fell into mine and went straight to my throat, I choked and thought I was going to vomit all over her. It was horrible.

– hahaha you threw up on the girl? My God, man!

– Nooo! It was almost alone. She went up and down. She didn’t even notice.

– Of course you noticed, gee! But you’re not even going out again, are you?

– We tried again but it came to the same crap. The atmosphere that followed made it clear to both of them that they had no chemistry. It sucks when the kiss doesn’t fit…”