The changes that disappointments produce

Sometimes, the changes produced by disappointments can be irreversible. This fact may not be negative, although it will always depend on the direction in which the transformation occurs within our heart and mind.

But I must add that If the changes produced by disappointments are in a negative sense, they can be fatal for our own being.and this is not a good thing.

Disappointments that make you lose hope

Let’s take for example a love failure. Disappointments related to the heart are often really hard. So much so that many people never manage to overcome them. Logically, a love failure can cause so much pain in our heart and soul that we may already shut down and not want to suffer another similar disappointment again.

However, thinking and weighing all the good that love brings us, and the bad that a breakup or depression entails, Is it really worth closing yourself off completely because of a relationship that has failed?

If you ask me, I would say no for sure. Love has brought a lot of happiness to my life, and some pain and disappointments. However, what I have experienced and felt being in love more than makes up for the disappointment of a breakup.

So disappointments in love should be taken as a temporary failurewhich will make you stronger, wiser, and more patient, but it should never make you a person who is closed to living another similar adventure again, since it is a wonderful world to which you will be turning your back.

Other harsh disappointments

Not only disappointments in love can produce irreversible negative changes in our mind and heart. Betrayal can cause great pain… Imagine that you have a good friend whom you trust blindly. You tell him everything and talk to him about any details. If you have problems, you tell him and he always helps you get out of the hole.

Is there greater pain in the world than the betrayal of a good friend? It is certainly difficult to find. Although we can add that betrayal itself, whether by a loved one, family member, lover or close person, is always very painful.

But we must not let this allow us to fall into the abyss of constant insecurity and distrust of everyone. Otherwise, we will be very unhappy people. Human beings need to trust other people. He should feel safe surrounded by those who love him most. He must have a refuge in close people who take care of him, otherwise, he falls into despotic, unpleasant, insecure, bad-thinking and negative attitudes.

We should never close the door to the arrival of new people into our lives.. The fact that you have been betrayed should not cause a total change of attitude in you, as you will fall into a state of permanent sadness from which it is very difficult to escape.

The state of disappointments

Unfortunately, sometimes It seems that we live in an unsupportive society in which constant disappointments are a maximand it is complex to find healthy and sincere people who really deserve our trust.

Nevertheless, a new current that is more humanistic and closer to the goodness of the human being begins to take shape. Each time it is more powerful and noticeable, and it directly connects the empowerment of all the good things that men have.

Although it is not easy to see it through the constant bad news and discouragement that a very competitive, aggressive and ambitious society produces, This new attitude of kindness and solidarity with people who have suffered disappointments is thereAnd he has come to stay.

This same Wonderful Mind project is a clear example of all the good that human beings can give to others, without asking for anything in return, for the simple fact of wanting to help.

So Do not allow your disappointments to be the ones who mark the path to follow, because you will constantly miss the direction. Be yourself, make positive change and trust those who deserve it, because although they may seem invisible, they are among us.

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