The 5 hidden meanings of when a man calls you pretty

Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, beautiful…

If we talk about compliments, the ways to call a woman can be many.

Although not all mean exactly the same.

Who tells you, or where they tell you, will vary its meaning.

You will not feel the same if the man you are attracted to calls you pretty, than if your brother tells you so.

Do not you believe it?

What this type of word hides may have more than one intention.

The problem is when HE uses it on you.

Let me guess. Has she called you pretty or pretty and you have no idea what she meant by that?

Surely how he has called you makes you doubt if he will feel something more for you.

Relax, together we will discover the 5 hidden meanings of when a man calls you pretty.

Also, I will reveal to you how men use some compliments and how to respond to them.

context is everything

Within language, each word is used for a specific purpose. We know that.

But when it comes to men, what they tell us can change our perspective.

Therefore, there are several intentions behind the same compliment.

Beautiful, it can be used both to ask you for something, and to celebrate your beauty.

What we must keep in mind is who tells you and where.

Situation #1:

Your coworker is late with a report submission.

He needs you to assist him so he can finish faster.

But you’re close to your departure time.

He walks up to you nicely and says, “Honey, can I ask you a favor?”

What do you think their goal is in using this compliment?

It is evidently, right? He NEEDS you to help him at all costs.

Then try to sweeten yourself with a compliment or courtesy gesture by calling yourself pretty.

So that you agree to do what he wants.

Situation nº2:

You meet your friends in a bar or pub.

You decide to go for a drink or beer.

At that moment, a man approaches you and with a seductive tone of voice tells you:

“Hello beautiful, I’m Juan. I buy you a drink?”

Do you have it clear? This time, the intention of the word pretty is different, don’t you think?

On the one hand, Juan is trying to seduce you with the classic strategy of buying you a drink.

On the other hand, he is wanting to tell you that he is attracted to you, he considers you attractive.

Let’s ignore the fact that Juan is not being very original to seduce you.

These examples just demonstrate what to consider when analyzing a compliment.

It is not only important to understand who is telling you and how, but also where.

So, pay attention to how, when and where he calls you precious, cute, beautiful, etc.

Without a doubt, it will say a lot about the intention behind the compliment.

What does he want to tell you if he calls you…

PRETTY

When this word is used, a self-confident woman is recognized.

A beautiful woman knows that she is. She doesn’t need to be reminded.

He knows his seduction tools and uses them if he wants them.

She is a woman who stands out.

This quality tends to scare some men, but it doesn’t have to be the case for you.

There are places like Spain, where the word pretty/o is also used as a courtesy.

Here, it is usual that they can greet you by saying “Hello, beautiful!”

So you will have to evaluate the context.

If your man calls you pretty, in other than polite ways, pay attention.

He may have a lustful desire for you; he certainly recognizes your sex appeal.

CUTE BEAUTIFUL

These words are often used as a courtesy in some countries like Argentina, for example. If so, he is most likely being nice to you.

Although, when someone calls you cute, it’s because your beauty stands out.

And by beauty I mean internal, external or both.

You may be cute because your personality is attractive or you may even be considered a nice person.

Whatever it is, it’s a wonderful compliment. Enjoy it.

BEAUTIFUL

There is no doubt about it here.

If a man calls you beautiful, it’s because he really considers you that way.

Surely he recognizes your external beauty, he likes your features or the way you dress.

It may also be that by calling you this way he is encompassing all of you in one word.

He considers you beautiful because you are everything he looks for in a woman.

That is, he is attracted, but, in addition, he may have feelings for you.

My advice is to pay attention to the context. Does he always tell you?

When he tells you, does he accompany it with a kiss or an affectionate or rather sexual gesture?

These answers will let you know if he feels desire for you or there is a possibility that it is love.

The 5 hidden meanings of when he calls you pretty

As I have previously explained, each word has a certain objective.

But these types of compliments can be used in many different ways.

Let’s see the 5 hidden intentions that explain why he calls you that:

1) He is attracted to you

You stand out (and he wants you to know it!) A beautiful, self-assured woman is easily recognizable.

By telling you how he perceives you, he is telling you that he is attracted to you.

This is the beginning of all courtship or flirtation, of course.

The classic way to lower anyone’s guard is by giving them a compliment first.

If he approaches you and highlights your beauty, he clearly wants more than just to meet you.

He’s trying to flirt with you. You interest him.

His way of interacting is by breaking the ice and explaining why he is approaching you. He considers you attractive.

Knowing the personality and way of being of the person you are interested in is extremely important.

If he approaches you in this way, it is clear that there is a magnetic attraction.

Although remember, as Aesop’s fables taught us:

“Not only pretty feathers make a bird beautiful.”

You are worth more than your appearance and you have the right to assert yourself for it.

2) He is manipulating you

This is the example of the coworker asking for a favor that I mentioned earlier.

There are many times when, consciously or unconsciously, we use compliments to manipulate or, rather, to achieve our goal.

According to Leon F. Seltzer, Ph.D. In PsychologyToday’s Evolution of Being, praise also has its dark side.

Thus, there are people who use compliments to generate something in you.

Whether it’s changing your opinion of them or getting you to do something for them.

Or the false flatterer, that is, the one who uses a compliment to sweeten you or convince you of something.

In this sense there are numerous reasons why compliments are often used, for example:

If you are a somewhat insecure person, being called pretty constantly will change the way you are with that person. Thus, praise would be transformed into calculated compliments. This means that he is calling you that because he wants to convince you of something or to do something for him. To negotiate: it may be something labor or not, but he wants you to reach an agreement on the same subject and he tries to sweeten you with a flattery to achieve it. To ask you for something specific: a favor, for example.

Not that you should be wary of every compliment, but it’s good to be cautious.

Understanding why he says it will free you from all confusion.

3) He is polite to you

If he is courteous, he is being attentive to you and uses this word as a way of being polite or trying to be attentive to you. There’s nothing hidden here, he’s just being nice to you.

It is possible that he will interest you in another way. But why would you be here trying to find a meaning to what I called you pretty.

If what you want is to conquer him or learn to seduce him, I recommend that you explore the concepts shared by Noelia Sandoval in her book “Melt him with love.”

Noelia is a relationship specialist who has spent years studying the neurology and biology of falling in love.

His book is an explicit guide that helps you discover the true factors of falling in love and learn how to use them to your advantage.

So if you want to know how to make this or any boy fall in love, you cannot stop taking a look at his theories.

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4) Appreciate yourself

They may have known each other for a long time or spend many hours together each day at work.

If he is fond of you, it is clear that he will use sweet names to call you.

Although, it is not necessary that your form of appreciation has something to do with love.

Quietly, he may be addressing himself that way because he considers you his friend.

You will have to pay attention to the rest of his gestures or actions to know if he likes you or not.

5) You are looking for something serious

Do you notice that their gestures and actions towards you mean something else?

It is likely that he calls you beautiful because you inspire tenderness and appreciation in him.

But that he is also beginning to feel something more for you.

Pay attention to your boy, he may be about to fall in love with you.

What to answer when they call you pretty?

When someone gives you a compliment, it’s always flattering.

But to decide how to respond you will have to interpret the context.

There are times when the compliment is not a compliment, but an act of manipulation.

If you can identify the intention behind the use of this word, your answer will be adequate.

Obviously, the idea of ​​this is that you are the one who naturally responds to a compliment.

I mean your personality and instinct will surely guide you how to respond.

But if you have doubts about how to do it, here are some ideas.

Also pay attention to the tone of voice and gestures, they will help you give the right message.

1) If you notice that you are being manipulated, you could answer with the truth:

If you get along with that person and it is not a problem for you to do something for them:

“Don’t worry, it will be easier if you tell me how I can help you.” (With a soft voice and smile)

If you don’t get along or just don’t want to cooperate (and you want him to know):

“Let’s get to the point, what do you need?” (with a serious tone of voice and expression)

2) If they are flirting with you

Here, everything will depend on whether the person who is seducing you really interests you or not.

Your way of responding should end the conversation or continue it.

If you want to continue it, I suggest a bit of mischief in your answer to intrigue him.

For example:

“I’m glad to know you have good taste.”

Or you can challenge him with a smile and playfully saying:

«A classic compliment… Now it’s your turn to show off your creativity; I’ll wait for you, don’t worry.”

If he’s mentally quick, he’ll tell you something surprising.

Otherwise you will leave him speechless or confused for a second. In that case, made to laugh and break the ice.

Or maybe make him laugh by jokingly saying:

«Do you believe it? I always wake up pretty, but I think I exaggerated a bit today…»

Another way to resolve this situation is simply with a gesture.

In that case, smile and nod, but don’t continue the conversation.

Stay silent for a moment. Let him continue his seduction game.

3) If he is being polite to you

In these cases there is not much to say. Just carry on with the conversation like it’s nothing.

Remember, he is being nice, it is not necessary to give importance to the word.

4) If he shows interest in you

If he wants to make you feel special, he’ll tell you often.

In this case, it may be because he really likes you or is interested in you.

The important thing is that he wants me to…