Stay away from those who don’t show an ounce of consideration for you

We have to learn to prioritize ourselves and understand that, for better or worse, we are the only essential people in our lives, and all those who harm us are too many.

If you are used to using social networks, you certainly already know this option called “block friend”. On some occasions, we accumulate in these spaces people we don’t really know, relationships that bring us more problems than benefits.

Nowadays, and especially among younger people, it is common for friendships to end this way. Who doesn’t exist in your social networks, doesn’t exist in your life. It is a cold and also impersonal way of breaking ties.

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• Sometimes we need to ignore certain things to live in peace.

Well, using this example, many of us should do the same in real life. Sometimes we carry relationships on our backs that greatly hinder our personal growth.

However, it’s also not about going door-to-door to let you know that we no longer want someone’s friendship. It’s just about knowing how to prioritize and not investing time and effort in people who don’t deserve them.

It is not always easy to understand when this moment comes when we are no longer important to someone. And not only that, something that can also happen is that they lose respect for us, and that this need turns into something based on interest.

It is necessary to know how to differentiate between those who need you in an authentic way and love you, and between those who, in fact, “detached” themselves from our hearts a long time ago.

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There are friendships that always appear punctually at times when some people need something. When they want a favor, when they need to be listened to and “only we know how to do it”. We must be very careful in these cases.

We should show support, affection and understanding to our friendships, as long as there is reciprocity. A friendship, like any type of relationship, is based on a sincere exchange of emotions, thoughts, support.

If you don’t feel any of these dimensions and you see that some people only come to you when they want something in return, don’t hesitate to set limits.

It’s not, as we said before, about breaking the bond overnight. In reality, just tell the truth about how you feel and set boundaries for the relationship.

“You can’t do that because it’s not good for me”, “I’m noticing that you only seek my friendship when you need something. I wish I had more recognition of myself from you.”

Don’t worry if, over the years, you have to leave many people along the way. In reality, life is just like that, moving forward to keep the bare minimum, with what really matters and makes our heart great.

Those who walk with a lighter mind and a more charged heart feel happier and, therefore, we shouldn’t be afraid to let go of those who don’t need us.

There will be times when you will feel real pain when you see that someone who was very important to you no longer feels the same. He stopped recognizing you, needing you.

Healing this pain through this discovery takes time but, in turn, we must always remember that the greatest love of our lives must always be self-love. If you don’t love yourself and don’t respect yourself, you won’t be able to open the door to other opportunities.

The people who are really important to you are actually few, but they are certainly the best. It is not, therefore, about “accumulating friends” as we do on social networks. In real life, we must prioritize and love what we have in front of us.

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Those who need you will demonstrate it. And they will do it with integrity, without selfishness or blackmail. Because those who love and respect you know how to establish this daily exchange in which everyone wins and no one loses.

If the people who need you know how to demonstrate this, never forget to show reciprocity, making them realize that we need them too is a very powerful form of recognition, because it makes them feel useful, important, and essential in our closest network of friends.

People need many things to live: food, warmth, a home, moments of rest and freedom. But we must also not forget that the most important things in this world are not “things”, but people.

Hence the importance of knowing how to take care, attend, recognize, without giving rise to doubts, letting go of useless weights that can only cause damage and harm our personal growth.

Make yourself your priority. Look after yourself each day and who you really consider important. We have to learn to distance ourselves from those who don’t need us.

Get away from those who show they don’t need you so you don’t allow yourself to get away from yourself. Life is too short to waste time with those who don’t add anything good to you.

The Mind is Wonderful