Spicy questions: 160 ideas for a conversation full of ulterior motives

You know when you’re talking to someone and the mood starts to heat up? At these times, asking spicy questions can make everything even more interesting. See below a very varied selection – from light and daring to those perfect to make the other person crazy about you!

Light spicy questions to start the conversation

The cool thing about these sensual conversations is to start small. Make no mistake: these saucy questions seem subtle, but they can set the temperature soaring.

What do you find sexy in people?

What makes you have butterflies in your stomach?

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

What do you wear to bed?

Do you prefer kiss on the mouth or on the neck?

Have you ever been attracted to someone you shouldn’t?

Are you more attracted to beauty or intelligence?

What was your first impression of me?

Could you go a year without having sex?

Can you guess what I’m wearing right now?

What are you wearing now?

Which part of my body do you like best?

Have you ever slept without clothes?

Have you ever had sex with an ex?

What would an ideal first date look like?

Do you like to flirt on your cell phone?

Which of my photos do you think is the sexiest?

Would you send me your prettiest picture?

Have you ever watched 50 Shades of Grey?

A year without chocolate or a year without sex?

Do you like receiving foot kisses?

What’s the funniest thing you’ve said behind closed doors?

Have you ever had sex in a motel?

Have you ever had sex with people on Tinder?

Have you ever danced on a pole dance?

Have you ever had sex with more than 10 people?

And more than 20?

Have you ever had a colorful friendship?

Would you rather have sex on a beach or under a waterfall?

What would you do if you were the opposite sex for a day?

Are you happy with your sex life?

Do you like sex games?

Would you rather have sex with someone beautiful or someone who is really good in bed?

Do you prefer money or sex?

Do you prefer having sex with the person of your dreams or all boletos paid?

Having bad sex for the rest of your life or never having sex again?

Have you ever thought about spicing up your sex life?

Have you ever been to a sex shop?

Do you like to talk dirty?

And listening to dirty talk, do you like it?

What’s the perfect soundtrack for a hot night?

Do you feel insecure about something in bed?

Do you often watch pornography?

Do you think your kiss is good?

Do you prefer to give or receive massage?

Do you think you can roll anything on a first date?

Do you like to laugh during sex or do you prefer something serious?

Do you consider yourself open-minded about sex?

What is your opinion on open relationships?

How soon can you get here at home?

If you could have sex with a celebrity, who would it be?

After sex, sleeping with a spoon or each one to one side?

How long have you been without sex?

Next step: a little more seduction…

Bold spicy questions for those who like to tease

For both a serious relationship and a flirtation, these questions are naughty in just the right amount.

Have you ever seen someone doing striptease?

Have you ever stripped for someone?

What do you think my kiss tastes like?

What was the last sex dream you had?

Have you ever said someone else’s name during sex?

What is the most sensitive part of your body?

Does that kind of talk turn you on?

Do you like being patted during sex?

Have your neighbors ever heard you having sex?

Is looking into the eyes important during sex?

What’s the most unusual place you’ve had sex?

Have you ever had sex in the shower?

Have you ever had sex in the kitchen?

Have you ever had sex outdoors?

Have you ever had sex in the car?

Have you ever had sex in public places?

Have you ever had sex standing up?

And on the floor?

What’s your favorite type of porn?

What was the most vulgar thing you said at the time?

And the most romantic?

Lights on, off or in between?

Do you prefer rough or passionate sex?

What is your fetish?

Do you like a little pain during sex?

Have you ever used food during sex?

Have you ever had a daring dream of me?

Have you ever been caught in the act by someone?

Have you ever watched someone having sex?

Have you ever had sex with someone watching?

Have you ever pretended to be someone else while having sex?

Have you ever used whipped cream during sex?

Have you ever paid for sex?

Do you like bites?

Have you ever used flavored condoms?

Have you ever imagined yourself taking a shower with me?

What do you think about during sex?

Do you prefer boobs or ass?

Have you thought about sex today?

Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Do you think anything goes when you’re inside four walls?

Do you think size matters or not?

Do you prefer to be on top or below?

Do you have a position you’ve never tried, but feel like it?

Do you mind moans or do you prefer silence?

Have you ever had sex with a blindfold?

Do you prefer to have sex in the morning or at night?

Have you ever recreated a porn movie scene?

Have you ever had sex with more than one person at the same time?

Where do you love to receive kisses?

Have you ever felt horny texting on your cell phone?

Have you ever filmed any of your sex?

What would the perfect sex look like for you?

One thing is for sure: these questions will make the other person think about you a lot – maybe without clothes on.

Spicy questions to drive you crazy

The final gamble: questions that start in the ear and end up behind closed doors. Delight!

What part of my body would you like to kiss right now?

What sound turns you on?

Where do you most like to be touched?

Where do you love to have sex?

What’s your opinion on taking toys for sex?

Do you prefer to dominate or be dominated?

What would you do if I was in your bed right now?

What fantasy do you have that you’ve never told anyone?

In what position would you like to have sex with me right now?

What fantasy would you like to fulfill with me?

Would you like to see me touching myself?

Have you ever tried edible panties?

If you were to give me a massage, where would you start?

What would you do if you received a nude from me?

If you could only touch me in one part, what would it be?

What was the best thing they did for you in bed?

Is there something you would never do in bed?

Have you ever used handcuffs during sex?

Would you let me sit on you?

Do you prefer to have or receive oral sex?

What is the maximum number of times you came in the same day?

When was the last time you masturbated?

When was the last time you had an orgasm?

Have you ever touched yourself thinking about me?

Have you turned 69?

Have you ever woken up wanting to have sex?

Have you ever dreamed about sex and woke up very horny?

At your house or mine?

In what ways do you like to use the language?

If you could only have sex in the same position for the rest of your life, what would it be?

Have you ever had anal sex?

If I let you do everything to me, what would you do?

Could you take my panties off with just your teeth?

Do you like it when I’m naughty with you?

Do you know how to take off a bra with one hand?

Have you ever received an oral while driving?

What’s your favorite position when you’re on top?

What’s your favorite position when you’re on the bottom?

In a word, what would you like to do with me?

Have you ever used a vibrator during sex?

Have you ever participated in a threesome?

How about calling one more person to have sex with us?

Would you like to see me having sex with someone else?

Have you ever played BDSM?

Do you have a safe word?

Do you like handcuffs and whips?

Would you be my slave in bed?

If I could fulfill three of your wishes, what would they be?

Do you scream when you come?

Would you let me sit on your face?

I need a naughty thing to sleep better, can you help me?

What if I said I’m naked right now?

Can you help me undress?

Is it wrong for me to want to fuck you right now?

Spicy questions are delicious, as is dirty talk. Learn more about this way of expressing yourself at the H time and rock the art of conquest.