Sometimes a withdrawal in time is also a victory

How could we assume that you don’t always win? What is the best way to deal with what we believe will be a defeat? How do we know when enough is enough or where our limits are to stop suffering and start taking care of ourselves? Sometimes a timely withdrawal is also important to win, because victories are not always found in continuing. Wear and tear is also important, as is discomfort, especially when they become routine. Hence, assessing where we are and where we are going is essential.

In these cases, failure is not withdrawing, but continuing to fight and insist on something that no longer makes us happy, That’s why it’s simply mechanical and doesn’t inspire us. It is getting so worn out that it even hurts, lost in a labyrinth of thoughts that forces us to continue almost without knowing why. Sometimes because we don’t know how to change the objective and other times because we have chosen a bad path to get what we want and we don’t realize it.

Although success requires work, perseverance and enthusiasm and to achieve this we will have to use obligation, motivation and commitment, We cannot always or rather, we must continue, especially when our mental health is compromised. What happens when fatigue and demotivation haunt us day after day? What can we do when what we dedicate our time and desire to does not make us happy? Perhaps it is time to withdraw in time to begin developing a new plan, new challenges or new dreams. It’s time for a change.

We may not win but it won’t always be a defeat

If we are able to describe the concept of winning well, we will realize that we win when we get what we want, But if on the way to victory we have lost that desire to achieve it, that want to do it… How can we win? Arriving at the goal defeated and without the strength to get excited can make it not so worth having won. Because winning is also enjoying the path to success, not always, but often.

Sometimes a timely withdrawal is a victory because it implies having enough courage to give up what we once saw as a goal, but which now does not benefit us or simply absorbs us so much that we are left without energy. Our mood sets our limits and knowing them helps us identify how and when to use our tools.

Defeat is much more than losing. It is feeling attacked and surpassed for not having given everything we had to get what we wanted, which is why defeat is also persisting when in reality we should let go. Victory, therefore, requires having fought well, having been aware of our limits and knowing how far we can go. Because a victory is also being honest with ourselves.

Is it worth continuing to fight for something that we believe is finished?

We should not miss opportunities, nor give up at the first opportunity. It would be a shame to leave it when we are close to achieving it or abandon it when there is still magic left. Thus It is always advisable to consider the possibility of trying it one more time. From here we encourage you to try, to pursue what you want, although we are aware that the thermometer is personal and each person has to know when to stop.

If it still makes you happy, if you have some doubts but you feel that sometimes they become clear and there are just a few stupid days left with no desire to continue, maybe it’s not time to retire yet, maybe you can still win. Decide well how far, know yourself well and investigate how far your strength goes.

However, When you know, don’t hesitate to do it. Take care of your health and withdraw from that which no longer fills you, from that which only remains in your life, even if there is a past in which it filled you.. Now it doesn’t anymore and the sooner you realize it, the sooner you will be able to fill your life with new hopes and new challenges, with new battles and with new people around you.

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