Silver Wedding is the name given to the celebration of 25 years of marriage. Larissa Santos, from Seraphine Eventos, comments that the term “wedding” comes from the Latin word “vota”, which means “promise”. “It is used to refer to the marriage vows exchanged on the occasion of the wedding date,” she says.
The wedding anniversary can be celebrated in countless ways, but many couples choose to hold an event. And, within this proposal, the possibilities are countless: there are those who opt for a more intimate celebration, as well as there are couples who organize an event “with everything they are entitled to” (like a big wedding). Check out the tips from professionals and get inspired with good ideas for unforgettable Silver Weddings.
Silver Wedding: meaning
Ceremonialist Ju Monteiro, from AAMY Produtora, comments that, apparently, the wedding celebration started in Germany. “It was customary to present couples with a silver crown for 25 years of marriage and a gold crown for 50 years. These metals were chosen because they were durable, precious, valued – characteristics expected in a solid marriage,” she says.
Ceremonialist Malise Kroth highlights that each wedding has a special meaning in the couple’s life, in the renewal of their promises. “Silver is a noble metal, malleable and the more polished it is, the brighter it gets. In marriage, silver symbolizes the outward demonstrations and the way of being naturally accepted, where one has already shaped their life to that of the other, but without losing their individuality…
How to organize a Silver Anniversary
In most cases, organizing a Silver Wedding turns out to be similar to organizing a wedding. That’s because, regardless of whether the couple decides to have a big party or prefer a more intimate celebration, you need to think about all the details, such as location, guest list, menu and more.
Check out the main points that deserve attention when organizing the Silver Weddings:
- Guest list: this is certainly one of the first points to be decided, as it will directly influence the organization of the event. Ju Monteiro comments that, after 25 years, it is normal to have a renewal in the friendship cycle, so the guest list must consider the closest and most relevant people and who are part of the couple’s history.
- Venue: Malise emphasizes that, when choosing the venue, the number of guests, location, budget and style of celebration that you intend to hold must be considered. “It is also necessary to think about the renewal ceremony, which may or may not be carried out at the place of the party, or in the church, according to the couple’s religion”, she says.
- Menu: Malise explains that it is necessary to consider the time of the event, the number of guests and what is expected of the party to define the menu. “You can opt, for example, for something more traditional, classic, sophisticated or something more lively, relaxed, or even something much simpler. A dinner always goes very well. Even in a simple way, it is always elegant,” he comments.
- Attractions: must be chosen according to the purpose of the event. They can be restricted to live music or a dance floor with a DJ, for example. Or, if desired, the couple can choose other types of attractions, such as, for example, a photo booth, a screen with a retrospective, a samba school presentation, etc. The options are endless!
These are certainly the first points to be defined so that the couple can organize the entire structure and details of the event.
Silver Wedding: decoration
Ju Monteiro highlights that each wedding indirectly suggests a theme and the decoration can be inspired by the corresponding element. In the case of Silver Weddings, many couples end up opting for decoration details in silver and/or shades of gray.
But the truth is that there are no rules… The important thing is that the couple choose a decoration that pleases and matches the style of the celebration! Get inspired by some ideas:
1. The decoration with white, silver and red is cheerful without ceasing to be elegant
2. White, shades of gray and silver are sure bets for the celebration of 25 years of marriage
3. The white and green decor is pure sophistication
4. Colorful flowers and silver elements are a great choice for a striking decoration
5. The decoration can be fully customized with photos and initials of the couple
6. The Silver Wedding can count on an open-air renewal of vows
7. The decor can have a corner for well-married people
8. Silver Weddings held at home can also gain a classic and elegant decoration
9. The Silver Wedding Celebration Can Be Sophisticated in Every Detail
10. As there are no rules, shades of gold and yellow can also compose the decoration
11. Candles can add charm to the night event
12. The combination of black, silver and white is perfect for contemporary decor
13. The decoration of the Silver Wedding on the farm allows a thousand and one possibilities
14. Plants and wooden furniture provide a rustic decor
15. The decor can mix classic and modern elements, the important thing is that it pleases the couple
16. The sweets, as always, should complement the decoration of the Silver Wedding
17. Although the celebration is very intimate, it is worth paying attention to the decoration
18. How about betting on a vintage decoration?
19. Holding the Silver Wedding in a restaurant is an elegant and intimate option
20. The chosen space may have a decorated corner for the renewal of vows
21. An imposing cake can be the highlight of the decoration
22. Shades of pink provide a romantic and sophisticated decor
23. The celebration at home can also have a rich decoration
24. Outdoor Silver Wedding Decor doesn’t have to be sophisticated to be beautiful
25. The Silver Weddings with Provencal decoration have also won over couples
26. Renewing vows on the beach doesn’t require many decorative items to be beautiful
27. Rose, hydrangea and gerbera go great with a chic rustic space
28. The decoration of the Silver Wedding can tell a little bit of the couple’s story
29. A color palette that refers to love, ranging from rosé to marsala
Just like in a wedding, the options are endless and must be in accordance with the style of the event and the couple’s personality.
Silver Wedding: what to wear?
When defining the look, it is worth taking into account especially: time and style of the event. “This will determine whether the outfit will be more informal and relaxed or something more classic and formal”, highlights Malise.
Many women choose to wear silver pieces or accessories. There are still those who take advantage of the celebration to wear a wedding dress, either because they didn’t do it on the occasion of the wedding, or because they appreciate this type of look.
But it is worth noting that there are no rules. The important thing is that the woman feels good about the choice. Get inspired by some looks:
1. A woman can choose to dress as a wedding if, for some reason, she still has this desire
2. The couple can opt for a casual white look
3. Accessories or silver details on clothes are a successful bet
4. Black is always chic and can be the choice for an evening celebration
5. The dress is the most famous choice among women for the celebration of the Silver Anniversary…
6. The dress can be smooth and completely elegant.
7. The most important thing is that the couple feel happy with the celebration!
8. The chosen dress can be midi…
9. The important thing is to match the hostess’s style
10. The couple can choose formal and classic attire
11. The silver shoe can make all the difference in the look
12. Silver can be an option for women who want a chic look that escapes white
13. Her dress can match the color of his tie
14. The dress can have glitter and/or embroidery if the event is more chic…
15. Can be long and lace, ideal for daytime celebrations
16. Light colors are a good option for more discreet couples…
17. But nothing prevents the wife from choosing a striking color for the occasion
18. The dress for the Silver Wedding can mix lace and a plain skirt…
19. Have a small opening and stone details
20. A lacy dress can be an option for an informal outdoor celebration
21. Nude is a classic and chic option
22. A set can be an option for women and more modern celebrations
Ju Monteiro reinforces: there is no rule or tradition. The important thing is that the costume is in accordance with the style of the party, which in turn must be in accordance with the personality of the couple.
The celebration of the Silver Anniversary must be unique for the couple, regardless of the style of the party. Learn more about the meaning of the wedding.
Tais Romanelli
Journalist graduated in 2009 (58808/SP), freelance writer since 2013, totally adept at working from home. Communicative, always full of topics to talk about and inspiration to write. Responsible at work and outside of it; dedicated to commitments and the people with whom she lives; in love with family, dogs, home, the sea, moments of tranquility and also excitement.
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