Signs You’ve Definitely Found Your Half of the Orange

While most people think that the orange half will be like a perfect, harmonious union of bliss, your true half is the person who is meant to help you “complete”.

A person is unable to complete his life mission alone. Everyone needs someone to help them become a better person. Being in an honest, sincere and committed relationship with your half of the orange helps you become an even better version of who you already are.

Relationships can be difficult at first. They can be like two irregular puzzle pieces trying to fit together. Sometimes it feels like you don’t quite fit, but just after a little twisting, turning and studying new pieces, you feel the moment of the perfect fit.

It’s a feeling deep in your soul that says, “This is the right way.”

You know you’ve found your soulmate when:

1. You just know it.

Something deep down tells you he’s perfect for you. It’s as if there’s a force pushing you to let go of everything you previously hoped for and give yourself completely.

2. You’ve crossed the same path before.

You and your half of the orange have known each other for some time. You may not even have talked or touched, but you were already in the same place at the same time. Before my wife and I met, we each lived on one side of the street and worked on the same street as each other. However, we never meet until the time is right.

3- You and your half met at the ideal time.

Each person must be ready to find their half. Even though my wife and I had been very close for many years, we didn’t meet until the time was right for both of us. You need to be prepared to meet the half of your orange.

It may be that you have to go through some relationship that doesn’t work, or that you’re not ready to ditch your “perfect person checklist”, but when it comes to our half of the orange, timing is everything.

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4- When you are together, there is peace and tranquility between you.

Being quiet together is comforting like a warm blanket on a winter’s night. Whether you are reading in the same room, or going on a trip, there is always a peaceful peace between you.

5- You most of the time know what is going through your partner’s mind.

Everything is so deep between you that you can even feel and hear what you are thinking, even if it is not verbally expressed.

6- You feel each other’s pain when you are going through a bad situation.

You know each other so well that the second he walks through the door, you already know how his day was. You feel each other’s feelings: sadness, worry, and stress, and you know how to handle it as best you can.

7- You know each other’s flaws and yet you know their benefit.

Yes it’s true. Our failures have benefits. Each characteristic has a positive and a negative side. It is every person’s job to always look for the good, even when things don’t look so good. There is usually a benefit to every failure. Difficult people are great at making decisions. Overly organized people are great at paying bills on time.

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8- You share the same life goals.

You are on the same page with common values, ethics and goals. You may have a different way of achieving these goals, but you both want the same end result.

9- You are not afraid to bring the conversation up to date.

Conversations can often be challenging. Expressing concerns or trying to make decisions is uncomfortable most of the time. The orange halves know that if they come together, they will be able to work this out.

10- You respect each other’s space.

Whether it’s hitting a ball with friends on Friday or hanging out with friends on Tuesday, you always respect each other’s need for independence, knowing that when you’re together, the time you’re alone is special.

11- You are not jealous of each other.

Attractive women in the office or good looking personal trainer are not a threat to your relationship. You are safe knowing that you are unique to each other.

12. You respect each other’s differences and opinions.

You know very well that you have different opinions. Often the focus has totally opposite pillars. Even though you still have your own opinion, rather than disagreeing, there is a deep level of respect for each other’s opinions. You know how to let go of your own wills when it suits you.

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13. You don’t yell, curse, or threaten each other with the breakup.

Of course you feel the anger. People get hurt and that’s normal. But you don’t yell at your partner, or put the blame on him, let alone say that you’re going to break up. You love each other and that’s what really matters in the relationship.

14. You give in because you want to make each other happy.

You know how to let go of your own desires at the right time.

15. You know how to apologize.

It’s not easy to apologize and admit that you did something wrong. But like a great half of the orange, you realize that your actions or words can do harm.

16. You would choose him/her again if you had to.

You know he/she is unique and perfect for you. Even during hard times, you would choose him/her to be yours again.

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