Sexual fantasies: The 20 most common desires among women

Some time ago, many people still believed that women did not have sexual fantasies. That is, the repression of female sexuality has long prevented women from admitting to having erotic needs and from exploring their most intimate desires.

However, the reality today is quite different. Every day more women openly dialogue with their partners and their friends about sex and allow themselves to be freer in this area. Just as more women today are not afraid to admit that they masturbate as much as men, many of them also see no reason to hide their sexual fantasies.

20 most common sexual fantasies among women

1. Having sex in a romantic place, like a deserted beach;
2. Having sex in an unusual or forbidden place, such as at work or in an elevator;
3. Having sex with another man, other than the current partner;
4. Being dominated by the partner or being “forced” to have sex or do the same with him;
5. Fulfill a partner’s sexual fantasy;
6. Have unexpected attitudes during sex, which they usually don’t do or that the man doesn’t imagine she can do;
7. Having sex in the sea or in the pool;
8. Group sex;
9. Exchange of couples (swing);
10. Having sex outdoors;
11. Having sex with a stranger;
12. Having sex with more than one man;
13. Having sex with a woman;
14. Having sex tied up or using handcuffs;
15. Use BDSM accessories;
16. Wearing costumes, such as a sexy nurse or housekeeper;
17. Having sex in public, with other people watching;
18. Watching other people having sex (voyeur);
19. Having sex in front of a mirror;
20. Filming while having sex (sex tape).

If you’ve had or have any of these fantasies, or even others, isn’t it worth taking them out of the imagination and starting to realize them? Just be careful with those that involve other people, or strangers, after all it’s always good to be cautious and make sure everyone is comfortable and well protected against STDs.

Keep an open mind so you’re not afraid to face situations that can give you even more pleasure than sex in its more traditional forms.

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Sexual fantasies are excellent sources of pleasure or orgasm enhancement for both men and women. To fantasize is to leave your mind free to live in your head whatever you want and thus have even more pleasure in your relationships.

That woman who doesn’t want to act out her erotic fantasies and prefers to just imagine also benefits from this mental tactic of obtaining pleasure. Fantasizing unusual situations or imagining that you are having sex with someone else during intercourse are the most common and least noticeable form of sexual fantasy.

Just as a woman can fantasize during sex, this can also happen during masturbation, providing even more sexual pleasure in her orgasms.

It is also worth remembering that sexual fantasies are normal and there is nothing to be ashamed of for having erotic thoughts. Even those who believe they do not have these types of fantasies may have them and not realize it, or even repress these thoughts. However, it’s healthy and natural to leave your mind free to have sex-related thoughts, even if it’s just to be imagining.