Not everything is planned: happiness is there, see it with your own eyes and let yourself go

The best things in life do not follow plans or schedules. Most of the time it is enough to let ourselves go, to allow things to happen by themselves, with the subtlety of chance, with the openness of someone who is humble and expects nothing, but in truth… he dreams it all.

You may have already heard about the law of attraction. According to this principle, people should be able to achieve or become what we want thanks to those energy units that emanate from our own thoughts and emotions.

From this perspective that famous phrase of “You become what you think.” It means that In the Universe there is a kind of law of attraction where thought itself makes us achieve our goals. Well, it is not our purpose to criticize or defend this approach, because in reality Things can become much simpler.

happiness is there

Leaving aside that kind of mind-universe attraction, we could say that Life is a wonderful accumulation of coincidences where happiness can hide in any corner, in any corner. However, not everyone can be receptive enough to see it, to let go.

It is not a matter of magic, but of openness, of wanting to see, of get out of the comfort zone and to open those interior doors that we all have to allow ourselves second chances. If you realize that you deserve to be happy, you are already doing something great for yourself.

You are “recognizing” yourself, you are nurturing that bond and self-esteem where things can start to become much easier. Because life is not planned and on many occasions he insists on going against the plans that we have made with all our enthusiasm. Let’s reflect on it.

Become first what you seek

You may dream of finding the perfect partner. To that person who accompanies your days with affection, who is an accomplice to your desires and projects, a lover of your smiles and the refuge of your hugs. You know how you would like him to be, an emotionally mature person, fun, understanding, open to dialogue, humble and fearless, living in his emptiness.

So, what do you think if instead of “dreaming about it” you first reach all those dimensions that you want in the person you love? Become someone worth spending a lifetime with. Be the one you dream of, because if you feel good about who you are, the happiness you bring to whoever is next to you will be more complete.

Learn to allow yourself what you deserve, so that what you need comes

No, We’re not talking about the law of attraction.. It’s something much simpler. Think, for example, of those people who have experienced emotional failure and who decide to close the doors of their heart. And even more, they build a shell around themselves and live on distrust and resentment.

No one deserves to live like this, even less in a prison that one creates for oneself. The key is to start tearing down interior walls: I deserve to be happy, I deserve time for myself, I deserve to enjoy my hobbies, go out into the world, I deserve to laugh and look good.

When one gratifies oneself and gives oneself what one truly deserves, one opens oneself again to the world, He becomes more receptive to what surrounds him, to what surrounds him. Until in the end, when we least expect it, life brings him what he needs.

Be careful with high expectations, just let yourself go

Be careful with houses of cards, with “our happiness is forever” and “no one will hurt me again”. It is impossible to achieve emotional invulnerability and a fairytale life where every dream comes true because that’s how it is written.

Life has no reins, No one can control what is going to happen tomorrow, much less can we plan unattainable goals. Dreaming is not bad at all, it feeds our enthusiasm and by extension the strength and resources we use to achieve our goals. However, we must be humble and learn to let ourselves go, with more flexibility.

Now, “letting ourselves go” does not at all mean putting on autopilot. and allow things to happen the way chance or inertia wants. We are all at the helm of our lives and we know which direction to take, and we will guide our days weathering winds and storms. With strength and integrity.

BUT REMEMBER… let yourself be carried away by the gentle winds, leave your comfort zone and advance through those unknown islands, keep your mind open, your eyes awake and your heart receptive.

Image courtesy: Pascal Campion

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