Love yourself to be able to love: everything you are looking for is in you

The adventure of our lives begins with unconditional love for ourselves. Since we are the only person we will inevitably have to live with as long as we live. Loving oneself, above all, involves accepting who we are; with our mistakes and our successes, our lights and our shadows.

We know that loving oneself is not easy, and that we have also been educated under demands and mandates that we must fulfill to obtain social recognition, fighting for the admiration of others to feel connected.

Over time we experience how depending on the recognition of others makes us tremendously unhappy.generates a dissatisfaction in us that we do not know how to address, since our world revolves around the treatment of other people.

It takes a lot of effort to understand that our personal value goes beyond recognition, beyond whether we do things wrong or well, whether we manage to generate the expected results, whether or not we are doing the right thing. Our value lies in ourselves, in showing ourselves as we are and feeling that we are worthy of love despite everything.

I am worthy of love

All people are worthy of love. We often try to look for love outside of ourselves, since we have been taught that love must be earned. Under the slogans of what must be achieved, what must be done, and how it must be done.

Our being is impregnated with love per sealthough we tend to live outside of ourselves and this has serious consequences. It is increasingly difficult for us to listen to our basic needs; how to express our emotions that have been socialized and repressed.

We worry and are distracted by banal matters that do not enrich us or bring us anything important in our lives.. We suffer because of our expectations, our insatiable desire, and our inability to make decisions; because of all the fears we have learned.

Love yourself to be able to love

The first step to being able to truly love with purity is to love yourself.; feel worthy of love. Without judging us, to be able to understand and respect each other. Validating how we feel, how we find ourselves and what we need in each circumstance. Taking care of us and taking care of us.

On many occasions, we are disconnected from our being, we are not paying attention to ourselves, and we do not want to see what we need. Then all our energies go into caring for others. Offering the understanding and attention that we are not willing to give to ourselves. In this way we lose our self-love and in this way we fill our great void.

It is essential to love yourself to be able to love, and also, at the same time, it is important to love yourself to be able to receive the love of another person; trust in the love they can offer us. We will not be able to be receptive to all the beauty that other people give us if we do not learn to feel worthy; If we don’t start by loving ourselves.

What characterizes people who love themselves?

Learning to love yourself is a job on the entire personality. People who have achieved their objectives in this regard have a series of personal characteristics:

They approach the present with optimism to build a better future. They are not afraid to show themselves as they are. They are capable of showing love to others in a healthy and clear way. They control their fear of failure so as not to slow down in their efforts to achieve goals. They have an open mind and are curious about what they don’t know. They don’t try to please others too much. They have a clear idea of ​​where their own limits are and they respect them. They complain less and focus on enjoying the good. They have taste for those activities that promote their personal development. They take risks more frequently.

Yes, these words are for you who have all the love at your disposal

You have learned that love must be earned, that love has a series of conditions and that you have to make a great effort to be deserving and worthy of it. This is why you distrust everything beautiful that they offer you, this is why you can feel alone.

Because you have not seen yourself, you have not recognized your essence, you have not captured the light that radiates from your smile and your gaze. You are a wonderful person who deserves everything, worthy of infinite love.; deserving of gratitude, smiles, joy, harmony, well-being; and everything beautiful that surrounds you. And above all, you are deserving and worthy of yourself, of all the love that you harbor within you.

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