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Love will last as long as you take care of it and you will take care of it as long as you want it.

To take care of love it is essential that the small details are maintained every day, that we value our partner and make them feel special.

This is something that may seem very obvious and that we are all used to hearing and even saying. However, although we really know the theory very well, in practice we are not so skilled. Let’s reflect on it…

“In the end you realize that the small is always more important. The conversations at three in the morning, the spontaneous smiles, the disastrous photos that make you laugh out loud, the ten-word poems that bring a tear to your eye. The books that no one else knows about and become your favorites, a flower that you put in your hair, a coffee that you drink alone… That is what is truly worth it; the tiny things that cause gigantic emotions.”

-Between letters and caffeine-

Don’t ignore the person you love, because later you will cry for having lost them.

What is neglected is lost, even in love. Because If a relationship is not cared for, the enthusiasm and desire are lost to such a point that everything becomes meaningless.

Don’t do with love what a child does with his balloon, when he has it he ignores it and when he loses it he cries.

We tend to ignore or relegate our partner because we think they have an obligation to put up with us. and we hope that you will always understand us, even though your own needs are in check.

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Who has not been in a situation like this? Who hasn’t given and given and gotten little in return? When this happens to us we usually justify the other person but what we really do is excuse ourselves. And when this happens, We have to make the other person understand that love is a bilateral relationship that is nourished by reciprocity and care.

This in turn will result in personal and relational benefits, since being senders and receivers of affection and attention makes us feel valid and deserving of love, which keeps our self-esteem and our emotional well-being in good condition.

If we choose to cover our eyes and not talk and solve these issues, our relationship will fail. The absence of signs of interest and gratitude in love leads to doubts and insecurities about the couple and the permanence of what is supposed to be the link between two people.

What do long-term couples have in common?

As we have already commented on other occasions, There is no universal recipe for love to last. However, we can be sure that the fundamental thing is to be aware of what our partner needs without ever failing to attend to our needs and concerns.

Thus, relationship experts like John Gottman report that There are 5 basic pillars that support love:

The admiration. We are not referring to the candid expression of the qualities of the other, but to the ability to positively value what defines our partner.The formation of a team. Perceive the relationship and what happens in it as a “we” Instead of “you on the one hand and me on the other”, it strengthens the assumption of responsibility for what happens within the couple as a matter of two.The deep knowledge of the other and the relationship. Successful couples know what arouses interest in their partner and what does not, in addition to expressing all this openly. Learning from difficulties. Long-term couples talk about overcoming their difficulties by cooperating and working together, so they express themselves in a positive way. Acceptance. Good couples understand that there are problems or differences that they will never be able to resolve, so they have learned to live with it. In fact, being different seems to them an advantage rather than a disadvantage.

In short, happy couples do not have more or fewer differences than the rest, but rather they have achieved the ability to understand, accept and care for each other, which is what love is ultimately about.

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