Look for someone who caresses your soul, anyone can touch your skin.

Caressing the soul is seducing with words to ignite unsuspected emotions. The good craftsman of sincere love knows that there is no greater attraction than that of two minds that fit together, that search and discover each other beyond the skin and the senses, because caressing the soul is being reborn in the other without ceasing to be oneself. .

If we think about it, There are usually very few times in which we experience a true mental union with someone. to the point that seduction almost ignores the physical to delight us with a harmony of tastes, pleasures, knowledge and complicities that trace wonderful moments that are impossible to forget.

In the beautiful indigenous language of Mexico, Nahuatl, caressing the soul is translated into a sonorous word: “apapachar.”“. It is undoubtedly an exceptional art that we should all practice with our loved ones, because it inscribes respect, recognition and that love that transcends the skin and the senses…

We invite you to reflect on it.

Love is not in the heart, love lives in our mind and soul

The act of “cuddling”, of caressing the soul of another person, is not a process that originates in the heart. Although the image of love is always traditionally linked to this organ, its exact location is in the brain.where that chaotic and fascinating chemical dance takes place that determines many of our sensations.

Now, we know that Passion and love in their most “euphoric” version are governed by a subtle combination between neurotransmitters such as dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin.but… What happens when what we feel is above all a “mental union”? That fascination that goes beyond the skin or the physique?

The logical side of love

Not everything is chaotic in emotional relationships. The cortex or cortex of our brain houses the “most logical” processesthat is, perception, consciousness, judgment, the most balanced reasoning…

In this outermost part of our brain, made up of very complex neural networks, we people have our “rudder of control”. It is here where those processes are carried out that make us evaluate, for example, whether someone is worth it or not, and enjoy at the same time that mental connection where suddenly, our entire universe seems to “fit”.

The limbic system and the magic of emotions

If the outermost part of our brain is in charge of the most logical tasks or problem solving, in its deepest area hides that other structure that is as magical as it is special: the limbic system.

It is in this brain region where we are rewarded for that harmony, for those conversations where we delight with the person we love, for the knowledge we acquire, for the discoveries, for the sense of humor they transmit to us and the affection they offer us with the words.With each positive act, the limbic system offers us those neurotransmitters loaded with pleasure and well-being, generating the magic of attraction..

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Intelligence also seduces

The anthropologist and expert in emotional relationships Helen Fisher tells us that Science cannot explain exactly what makes us feel attracted to some people and not others.. We fall in love with whoever is close to us, but sometimes, Factors such as mystery or intelligence are also two elements with a high degree of attraction.

According to a work published in the magazine “Intelligence.com”, the attraction to intelligence tends to occur very often and, especially, in women. In fact, there are those who prefer a partner endowed with great intelligence rather than great physical attractiveness.

Intelligence is seen as something lasting. That is to say, if there is that exceptional union where emotions are harmonized with wisdom, with a sense of humor, with constant and enriching dialogues, satisfaction is considered greater. Those who say they feel more attracted to “the interior” than to “the abroad” Above all, they seek that mental connection where the challenge, discovery and pleasure in the other’s way of thinking satisfies them. and it makes them feel special by connecting with someone beyond the physical plane, beyond the skin.

To conclude, intelligence can be a very seductive component, there is no doubt, but that does not mean it will guarantee us enjoying a stable and happy relationship. To caress the soul of the loved one, every brilliant mind must be accompanied by the delicacy of emotional wisdom.

Because loving someone with nobility is also knowing how to bare your soul with humility. to find yourself in the darkest recesses of yourself, where you can know yourself better, where “snuggle” and discover yourself with the other and build, in turn, the couple’s own space. A wonderful adventure that is worth experiencing.

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