Life lessons

Our actions, behaviors and behaviors have their consequences in the wheel of life. Both the good moments and the bad moments that we experience are important, they are life lessons that will encourage us to mature, grow and be better people. Of course, as long as we know how to make the most of it.

We can understand the phrase “everyone has what they deserve” based on those consequences that our actions have.. We can believe in this well-known and popular phrase when what is deserved is positive. But the question arises when what we “deserve” and what life gives us are adverse circumstances, which entail suffering, changes, and misfortunes.

Everyone has what they need

So, based on the above, is everything that happens to us due to consequences of our actions? I dare say that “everyone has what they need.” Sometimes, we need to see directly the consequence of a “malicious” act.. And on many other occasions, what happens to us has a learning motive, “we need to learn.”

That can be the explanation for so many things that happen to us in life, that we will not relate to previous “unhealthy, incorrect, inappropriate or malicious” behavior, but that give rise to reactions that drive us to say “why do I deserve this?” “Have I done something bad?” Therefore, “Everyone has what they need to learn”.

An example of this may be when we find ourselves in a toxic relationship. The people around us tell us that our partner is not good for us, that he is hurting us, but we do not realize it. We believe that our discussions are natural and that what the other person tells us forgives any act that remains only behind closed doors.

However, one day we discover that he has been unfaithful to us and our whole world collapses. We have not done anything wrong, but we have needed this test to end a relationship that was not benefiting us. Therefore, instead of a misfortune it can be considered an opportunity to open your eyes, make a decision and a new direction. This is how life lessons work.

Life lessons, what can we learn from them?

And under this premise, the question that we must ask ourselves in all the moments in which life surprises us with adverse circumstances is: What do I have or can I learn from all the life lessons that have been put before me? Thus, we will see life, like a SCHOOLfull of lessons, and at each step, a difficulty, an exam, a circumstance that tests us.

Our challenge is to overcome the lesson, to move forward, having learned and prepared for the next lessons that are surely to come. I then add that, “we are prepared for what we have to live through, we have the capabilities and strategies to overcome it and grow with it, we just have to learn”, we call this “resilience”.

And although this sounds hard and difficult, as much as we learn and overcome life lessons, as much as we will enjoy and feel satisfied with ourselves and our life. Because heLife lessons are life understood as a Schoolwhere we can learn, overcome lessons, teach others, learn from what others teach us, raise levels of consciousness, heal and awaken to the depths of our Being.

All of this, adapted to our vital moment, always with the objective of finding the meaning of our life, harmony in our way of living, health, well-being, emotional balance and happiness. Life is not our enemy, it is always our friend. Although the lessons it offers us to learn always have a very bitter part.

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