It’s not about having a boyfriend – it’s about having the right boyfriend

You ask me why I don’t have a boyfriend like someone trying to discover my flaw.

You ask me why I don’t have a boyfriend like someone trying to discover my flaw. I say I’m not that easy, like someone who answers “perfectionist” when asked about their biggest flaw. It’s not a lie, but that’s not why either. I could blame the men and say it’s hard to commit these days.

I could blame it on “the times” and say it’s hard to admire. I could even do like those people who say “if you’re alone it’s because you’re boring” and redeem myself in the corners, but none of that would be sincere.

What I’ve been thinking lately that has brought me some calm is that love is very specific. It’s not even easy to find sincere love. Appearance, common interests and professional life are just general criteria. If they weren’t, the platform of love would be Linkedin.

It is not how it works. At least for me. I’ve always been surprised by those people who manage to get a relationship shortly after they break up. One leaves, another enters and everything is fine. Before I thought these people were very lucky.

Today I think that maybe they are more flexible. Perhaps they value the company more than the person. Enjoy the stability of having someone by your side. They adapt better to each other, while I stick to details.

I am passionate about the man who treats the waiter with politeness. That calls me in a cute way. Who has beautiful thoughts. Who manages to carry on a pleasant conversation at a party full of strangers. It may sound crazy, but for me passion is closely linked to the tone of voice and the quality of the playlist.

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I like those who look at me with intelligence, who hug me willingly, who don’t expose themselves too much.

Every time I see a happy couple, I imagine they are the result of some super complicated cosmic alignment. If it’s hard enough to love someone, imagine loving someone who loves you back.

Who also values ​​in you what no one else understands. I consider it a difficult mission to make oneself irreplaceable in someone’s life in a world where no one raises their head anymore, so engrossed are we with the phone’s display.

As a friend said, it’s not about having a boyfriend: it’s about having the right boyfriend. Until he arrives, I work, go out, go to the gym. I have my bad moments too, but there’s not much I can do about it. I need to have the patience to wait for what I deserve. I’m alone and it’s not my fault. Love is rare.

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