If two people are meant to be together, they will find their way back to each other.

Life is not a bed of roses. One day we are madly in love and the next we cry like a child when we want that fantastic toy that our mother can’t give.

Sometimes we have an incredible and absurd connection with someone, but that someone ends up letting us down or things just don’t seem to have been made to work out. I know that at this moment it feels like the ground is opening under our feet, and that sometimes the desire to dive in headfirst and end this suffering once and for all is greater than the desire to move on.

When we get too attached to someone, and then pull away, we stay like that. With no ground, no direction, no desire to continue our usual routine. The days look like ashes, the smell of that person comes from every corner. The longing makes a knot in the chest, the body starts to miss the hug, the warmth.

But that doesn’t always mean things have come to an end. In these moments we need to make friends with all this distance that has been tormenting us. We need to calm down. We need to respect their space and get it into our heads that we don’t beg for love. It is necessary to give a new direction to life and really occupy the mind with things that give meaning to our new lifestyle, even if it is only temporary.

Sometimes people just need time to sort things out and sort out their love for someone.

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If it’s meant to be, it happens. If you’re going to come back, you’ll come back better than before. If it’s for two people to be together again, nothing will get in the way or twist against. Some breakups are just a “see you later”, and in the meantime we need to live our lives without creating too much expectation. We need to put that smile on our face, reinforce self-love, give ourselves a chance. If it is to happen, love will come back even more convinced, with an open chest and overflowing affection. Will come back even more intentional.