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I was asked: “how am I going to know if it’s love, how am I going to make sure it lasts?”

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I wasn’t the best person to answer, but it’s one of those questions that put us in a corner of our thoughts, looking for answers. And I don’t know if it was Arnaldo Jabor, Camões, Tom Jobim, Fernando Pessoa, the apostle Paulo or Jesus Christ who said something about love. But I remember reading around and feeling a lot more, a lot of things about this confused feeling that ended up influencing my own definition.

Love is empathy. We always put ourselves in the other’s shoes, not in the background, but to feel like the other and see through another prism.

We don’t give up on self-love, but we are no longer the center of the Universe.

We don’t rummage through the trunk of the past or haunt the present with jealousy and hypothetical situations.

The well-being of the other comes above our own.

We look ahead, beyond the horizon line and it’s easy to see how we go there with that person by our side. She makes everything easier, more beautiful, more pleasurable.

Your pains, your joys, your moments, they will all have that stamp of longing when they are not shared.

It will be inconceivable to hurt the other person on purpose, just to make them feel how good it feels. Love does not hurt for the purpose of strengthening anything. This is called stupidity.

We don’t want to miss opportunities. A minute date, a quick conversation, an I love you at the speed of light, a hug to settle an argument that will lead to nothing.

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Love doesn’t test, doesn’t test, doesn’t force us to make choices, because it will fit into our life as it is and it will love or respect whatever is important to our life, even if it’s not the other person’s. .

It’s beyond meat. Desire will always be a consequence of the desire to be together, intertwined, but it will never be the greatest weight.

It does not allow endless silences.

He does not contemplate a life without the presence of that other life and for that very reason he will value very much keeping this life close to him.

It will fill us. It’s not even that other half talk, to complete us. He is someone who fills in those gaps that no one has been able to enter, because he sees our soul, the way we look, the tone of the voice, the smile, the wishes, the truths.

Love has patience. Respect. Admiration. Abnegation. Desire. Empathy. Kindness. Passion. Friendship. Love.

The sum will be pain, disappointment, heartache, tears, sadness, joy, happiness… And the good will easily erase the bad.

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Pride will never be greater than the desire to remain with that mirror of the soul.

“Live my life”, will never be a phrase contemplated only, because because life also belongs to those who are by our side.

I would think about it to be able to love…

Now to make sure it will last… Well, that’s hard. But on second thought, when we find in the other person all these ways of loving, maybe it’s easy. Maybe it’s automatic and loving is no longer a decision, it just happens and lasts, because we make it last without even noticing. It is not a sacrificing effort, but it will always be a conscious effort.

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After all, who has never wished, utopianly, that life would come to an end with someone who made the years pass with the grace of having loved and received the same love?

Where love exists in all its fullness, it endures… it just happens and remains.

Luciana Marques

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