Surely, many people have already heard requests to look after the children of relatives or friends. However, in some cases, the situation can get out of control. For example, when you end up being forced to babysit, even against your will. It is not always easy to say “no” to the people we love, and when we gather the necessary courage to do so, there is a high chance that we will end up being called “cold hearted” or even “selfish”.
One of the readers of incredible.clubnamed Liza, found herself in a similar situation, and she has a message to share with us.
We, from incredible.club, we mobilized to help our reader Liza find a way to resume her relationship with her sister and parents. We reached the following conclusions:
cool your head and take a short break from communication. Heated arguments and uncontrolled emotions will only make it harder to reach an agreement with your family members. You need to remain calm and prepare for a rational conversation.Say how you feel. When you feel ready to have a peaceful conversation, talk to Amber about your feelings. Repressed negative emotions tend to affect our mental health and our relationships with others. Ask your sister to also talk openly about her feelings. Perhaps the two of you are not able to fully see what has been happening in each other’s lives. Opening up about true feelings and daily struggles will certainly help for a better mutual understanding.Use facts to support your point of view. Remind Amber that childcare work is a professional activity that people get paid for. On average, a nanny earns US$19 (R$97.50) an hour, and many even earn a tip to encourage a job well done. So, try to explain that you don’t mind distracting your nephews occasionally, you’re just not available to spend hours doing work for free.
We hope this helps and helps you and your sister get along better.
Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation? After an argument with relatives, what do you usually do to overcome disagreements? Comment!
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